Fred Basset
Winger
I hope that I am now. It was over two years ago and the black dog has not been around me. It took therapy and leaving a job I was in for 23 years. I moved onto something else and got really lucky as I love it. There was a comment on here about how a person might look back and see themself. It's sadness. You know that was not really you, but you were in a fog. You look back and look at where you were, and then here and now, and think here is a second chance. Ball is in my court to take it.I hope you're through it and never end up back there. The view I put forward was given by someone very close to me who made a few unsuccessful attempts and of course won't be true for everyone. As you say it's a horrible place to be and not something that should be judged in terms of bravery or selfishness