Been a tough week

Discussion in 'SMB' started by offshore, Feb 13, 2018.

  1. Harry Angstrom

    Harry Angstrom Striker

    I think the OP did all he could. He should be proud of his actions not beat himself up about it.

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  2. That’s a terrible thing to have to go through.
    I’d like to think I’d react the same as you but I’m not sure I would.
    Sincere condolences for your loss and like everyone else I think your dad would be proud of you for your actions.
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  3. spangle

    spangle Full Back

    A very traumatic and upsetting thing to have to see and deal with. You should be proud of yourself for how you dealt with everything,I’m sure your Dad would.
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  4. HABA87

    HABA87 Winger

    Sorry for your loss. You did everything and more, and your family should be immensely proud of you.
    Stay safe marra, take care.
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  5. mickyw

    mickyw Goalkeeper

    Sounds like you've done everything you possibly could mate, don't beat yourself up about it. Sorry for your loss.
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  6. Sam Handwich

    Sam Handwich Winger

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  7. Superbadross

    Superbadross Full Back

    Don’t feel guilty or remorse mate, you did an absolutely blinding job and I’m sure your dad will be massively proud of your effort.

    You’re a hero pal!

    Sorry for you and your family’s loss.

    Massive respect.
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  8. Kevsgreat

    Kevsgreat Striker

    Just echoing others in saying you did the right thing there, I'd not have a clue in that kind of situation so to be calm enough to do what you did is amazing. Really sorry to hear your dad didn't pull through but you gave him the best chance of doing so.
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  9. wash

    wash Midfield

    So sorry for your loss. You did all you could. Remember the good times, having lost 2 people I love very recently you are all in our thoughts
  10. raindog

    raindog Winger

    You did what any responsible son would have done mate, so don't be hard on yourself. So sorry for your loss and just take some condolence that your dad is now at peace.
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  11. Dmac1969

    Dmac1969 Winger

    So very sorry for your loss , what a terrible experience for you and your family.
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  12. offshore

    offshore Central Defender

    Thanks everyone your words do make me feel a bit better. I seem to be getting better then something sets it off again. I had a few flashbacks last night when trying to sleep so I've booked an appointment with the doctors!! And I never ask for help
  13. You’ve been through a massively traumatic event man, no shame in reaching out for a bit help if it’s needed.
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  14. monkeytassle

    monkeytassle Striker

    Remember the last time you held his hand and said tara mate. You're responsible for allowing your family to do the same. Big respect.
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  15. HABA87

    HABA87 Winger

    It's difficult enough in 'normal' circumstances mate. I was at the hospital when my dad died after getting blue lighted up there, and it stings enough. But I didn't have the extra part of trying to save him. You did a grand job.
    Losing someone you've known your entire life is a tough enough one as it is. You're doing the right thing going to the docs, that's what they're there for.

    Go steady, and if you need anything shout on here.
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  16. I feel for you. My mam is 92 and in a care home. I went to see her yesterday and she is so weak I had to feed her orange juice through a straw. She said to me "I am not ganna be very good company so you will have to do the talking". She also said "I'm the world's worst, I haven't got the strength I was born with".
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  17. chopperrus

    chopperrus Midfield

    That's awful mate. Hope you're all hoping as best you can.

    Thoughts with you all
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  18. duff_man

    duff_man Striker

    Those 48hrs gave your brothers one last chance to see him alive, they will forever be grateful to you for that.
  19. Goat Eyes

    Goat Eyes Striker

    Still got her sense of humour though!
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  20. HerdnMulhall

    HerdnMulhall Central Defender

    A truly horrendous situation to find yourself in and I'm sure your Dad would be very proud of you.
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