It's a big part of VAR when the people operatinf it don't know what they are doing. It makes it no different to refs getting things wrong. Instead they have someone in a room miles away getting things wrong which makes a mockery of the whole thing.To be blunt, people who watch any sport solely because it feeds primitive urges and feelings, are one step up from cavemen.
I, like most people, love the feeling of seeing us score, but if all I was able to take from the experience was the feeling of sheer exhilaration at seeing us score in a hard fought 1-0 win against say, Rochdale, I would've given up a long time ago and I would be questioning my choices.
This is not an issue with VAR, or the principle of VAR, but an issue of total incompetence which is not on the part of the technology or the principle of it, but the people behind it operating it and making the rules.