Yes I think I knew about the depression. Didn't know he's got Meniere's - something I have to battle with too actually. So he has my sympathy.
Doesn't sound pleasant at all so you have my sympathy. It's the Asberger's that surprises me slightly.
I'm not sure this spider love story is working and I'm now imagining Martin using his palpae to gently pass his sperm on to Gillian...