On line divorce, has anyone done it

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This place is not what it was!
6 pages and nobody has said " shag his brother/bestfriend/some stranger you meet in a bar :lol:
better off without one like that
 
I don’t understand why it still costs so much when both parties are in agreement. Why can’t they just cancel the marriage form?
 
janey said:
Yep, and it’s not actually that, that’s pissed me off the most, it’s him saying he only stayed when me dad was poorly so he didn’t look bad. He was a twat all the time through that, I’d have felt less lonely if I’d been by myself.
Then I found messages, I’m truly one of the least jealous people you could know, always had the view if someone is going to cheat they’ll cheat whether you are jealous or not. Admittedly gut instinct did tell me to look two weeks ago. He ran like a frightened rabbit


No idea even worse if it was
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Bloody hell you've had an awful year pet xx
 
monkeytassle said:
It's a commitment you fruit loop
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You can be committed without needing a bit of paper which can cause you hassle later on though. Me and my lass have been together about 6 years, got a kid together, I help raise her older one, but never have we thought we should get married. Neither of us are religious, a wedding costs a lot, it can be stressful if the relationship ever was to break and, personally, I think having a child together is a much bigger commitment than getting a bit of paper. You can be married, get divorced and never even think about the person again, if you've got a child you know they'll always be in your life in some respects since they'll always be the mother of your child, your bairn will always talk about them etc. Plenty of people can be committed, demonstrate that to each other every day, and not feel the need for a marriage certificate to "prove" it.

Anyway, hope you get sorted Janey, bloke sounds like an utter wanker
 
Guinness Guzzler said:
You can be committed without needing a bit of paper which can cause you hassle later on though. Me and my lass have been together about 6 years, got a kid together, I help raise her older one, but never have we thought we should get married. Neither of us are religious, a wedding costs a lot, it can be stressful if the relationship ever was to break and, personally, I think having a child together is a much bigger commitment than getting a bit of paper. You can be married, get divorced and never even think about the person again, if you've got a child you know they'll always be in your life in some respects since they'll always be the mother of your child, your bairn will always talk about them etc. Plenty of people can be committed, demonstrate that to each other every day, and not feel the need for a marriage certificate to "prove" it.

Anyway, hope you get sorted Janey, bloke sounds like an utter wanker
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Cheers xx
 
All the best @janey as I'm sure that it's hassle you could do without. I know nothing about online divorce but I do know the divorce process is easier if you go down the two year separation route prior to commencing proceedings. Have a word with a solicitor that specialises in the area of divorce and there are some that will give you a free hour.
 
Old Prestonian said:
All the best @janey as I'm sure that it's hassle you could do without. I know nothing about online divorce but I do know the divorce process is easier if you go down the two year separation route prior to commencing proceedings. Have a word with a solicitor that specialises in the area of divorce and there are some that will give you a free hour.
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Thank you xx
 
It’s simple. Get the divorce online but you’ll need a solicitor to sort finances and family arrangements through a consent order. Divorce is easy bit. It’s the money and family matters that are difficult.
 
Guinness Guzzler said:
You can be committed without needing a bit of paper which can cause you hassle later on though. Me and my lass have been together about 6 years, got a kid together, I help raise her older one, but never have we thought we should get married. Neither of us are religious, a wedding costs a lot, it can be stressful if the relationship ever was to break and, personally, I think having a child together is a much bigger commitment than getting a bit of paper. You can be married, get divorced and never even think about the person again, if you've got a child you know they'll always be in your life in some respects since they'll always be the mother of your child, your bairn will always talk about them etc. Plenty of people can be committed, demonstrate that to each other every day, and not feel the need for a marriage certificate to "prove" it.

Anyway, hope you get sorted Janey, bloke sounds like an utter wanker
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All absolutely true but my point was getting married is a very large implied commitment. Too many take it too lightly.
 
janey said:
Just a bit, good job I’ve got broad shoulders :). xx


It wasn’t my move but I’d rather be by myself than with someone who doesn’t give a shit, so yes the start of a better one
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Is your move like.

So many people in similar situations would have begged him to stay and forgiven him etc

Your move was being resolute.

monkeytassle said:
All absolutely true but my point was getting married is a very large implied commitment. Too many take it too lightly.
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And you chose to convey that with this...

It's a commitment you fruit loop

Can you see the difference in your two posts?

Your more recent post is what could be called rational
 
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janey said:
Thank you. And yes, he’s turned out to be just that, he’s not anything like the person I thought. I’m going to shut up or I’ll totally character assassinate him, and if I start I won’t stop :)
That’s awful what happened to you. I’m much happier already, it’s better knowing you are by yourself, I’ve always loved me own company, than thinking someone is there when they aren’t xx
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Oh so sorry to hear you are going through this on top of your grief, big hugs xxx .................glad you could just chuck him out of the house mind ;)
 
monkeytassle said:
All absolutely true but my point was getting married is a very large implied commitment. Too many take it too lightly.
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I’d say, people take the commitment to the relationship too lightly, the certificate means nowt if a couple are not prepared to work at it. Ergo, the act of marriage is ceremony and the break up is made slightly more difficult. The hard work is keeping the relationship going on both sides.
 
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