Might be losing my mam.

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Mackemansj1 said:
Me mam passed away this morning, it’s been a nightmarish few days at the hospice mam fought tooth and nail to the end in some scenes I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy, the nurses said it was one of the worst they’ve seen as they said she had hours to live when we went in there on Monday and it continued till this morning. I kissed her on the head and said it’s ok to go now mam don’t be scared nipped to the loo sat down and she took her last breaths. Love you always mam, always with me.
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I'm so sorry to read this. Losing a parent is very hard. At least she is at peace now. Sending all my love. Look after yourself mate xx
 


Mackemansj1 said:
Me mam passed away this morning, it’s been a nightmarish few days at the hospice mam fought tooth and nail to the end in some scenes I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy, the nurses said it was one of the worst they’ve seen as they said she had hours to live when we went in there on Monday and it continued till this morning. I kissed her on the head and said it’s ok to go now mam don’t be scared nipped to the loo sat down and she took her last breaths. Love you always mam, always with me.
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Sorry for your loss, RIP to your Mam
 
Mackemansj1 said:
Me mam passed away this morning, it’s been a nightmarish few days at the hospice mam fought tooth and nail to the end in some scenes I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy, the nurses said it was one of the worst they’ve seen as they said she had hours to live when we went in there on Monday and it continued till this morning. I kissed her on the head and said it’s ok to go now mam don’t be scared nipped to the loo sat down and she took her last breaths. Love you always mam, always with me.
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So sorry to hear this, there are somethings we shouldn’t have to see. Be kind to yourself and take however long it takes xxxx
 
Mackemansj1 said:
Me mam passed away this morning, it’s been a nightmarish few days at the hospice mam fought tooth and nail to the end in some scenes I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy, the nurses said it was one of the worst they’ve seen as they said she had hours to live when we went in there on Monday and it continued till this morning. I kissed her on the head and said it’s ok to go now mam don’t be scared nipped to the loo sat down and she took her last breaths. Love you always mam, always with me.
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Sorry to hear this mate, my thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.
 
Mackemansj1 said:
Me mam passed away this morning, it’s been a nightmarish few days at the hospice mam fought tooth and nail to the end in some scenes I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy, the nurses said it was one of the worst they’ve seen as they said she had hours to live when we went in there on Monday and it continued till this morning. I kissed her on the head and said it’s ok to go now mam don’t be scared nipped to the loo sat down and she took her last breaths. Love you always mam, always with me.
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Yeah I've been there mate. It's the worst. Pleased you had a great relation ship cos remembering all the good times really helps. Like me, you'll think about her every day and the tears soon turn into smiles. Hope you're ok mate x
 
Mackemansj1 said:
Me mam passed away this morning, it’s been a nightmarish few days at the hospice mam fought tooth and nail to the end in some scenes I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy, the nurses said it was one of the worst they’ve seen as they said she had hours to live when we went in there on Monday and it continued till this morning. I kissed her on the head and said it’s ok to go now mam don’t be scared nipped to the loo sat down and she took her last breaths. Love you always mam, always with me.
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Sorry to hear this mate. Absolutely devastating for you and so sorry for your loss.
 
Mackemansj1 said:
Me mam passed away this morning, it’s been a nightmarish few days at the hospice mam fought tooth and nail to the end in some scenes I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy, the nurses said it was one of the worst they’ve seen as they said she had hours to live when we went in there on Monday and it continued till this morning. I kissed her on the head and said it’s ok to go now mam don’t be scared nipped to the loo sat down and she took her last breaths. Love you always mam, always with me.
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sorry to hear that. when i lost my mam it was comforting that she was free from suffering and pain even though selfishly i didn't want to lose her.
take care mate.
 
Sorry to hear your sad news.

Sister had similar bad diagnoses from GP's.

GP had had her on gaviscon for 2 months. He said her heartburn was excess acid & difficulty in swallowing was probably due to a chicken bone scratching her throat. It'd clear in a couple of weeks.

Eventually she went private and saw a specialist who almost immediately diagnosed cancer of the oesophagus (Stge 3) . Confirmed next visit after tests.

She succumbed abt 18 months later.

I have little faith in GP's. Going private when you KNOW something isn't right despite what the GP days is sadly what we had to do. Not everyone has this option though
 
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