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Winger
Your last comment is bollocks like. I have been split up nearly a year, it’s no easier for me and as for my wife she is holding a grudge like no other and to make things worse she got the whole situation hopelessly wrongMost of my best friends are married women and I'm single, I get on well with their husbands and although they are well aware their wives obviously fancy me (because they openly say it) they trust them and trust me. I sometimes even take them out for the day and their husbands have no problem with that at all, its just a friendship and that's all it will ever be. The best marriages have a strong foundation of trust and understanding.
To the OP: I recently read that all the negative emotions of a break up lasts around 3 months to get over.