Quinninho
Striker
"it could be worse" and such phrases are not helpful. It dismisses your feelings and makes you feel like your upset isn't valid. What you have said above is how you are feeling now and it's perfectly alright to feel like that. Many people are struggling to find the positives right now. It's a pretty shit situation all round to be brutally honest!
I've said before but lack of sleep is a killer both physically and mentally. Hopefully a combination of the tablets and a rest away from work over the weekend will help a bit.
Take care xx
Totally agree.
Even worse are the 'Keep your pecker up', 'Chin up' or 'What have you got to be miserable about?' comments...it's patronising and ..well, not helpful.
The ground opening up and swallowing me is often an attractive proposition these days. I'd take it now if offered.
Been in to work today for only the second time since lockdown. Hardly a soul around. Pissed off from the word go as PAT testers had been in and literally created a bomb site of my desk / workstation. Under pressure to get a job out and security hassling me, saying I hadn't notified site that I was going in (I had - but our HR dept hadn't forwarded on the clearance forms)
Terrible sleep at the moment due to a restless 11 month old who has just started nursery, worries about the future, a house that I wont be able to keep should my job go tits up - which is literally falling to bits anyway - and a missus who is out of her maternity and ramping up her days at work. She is struggling to cope and wishes she wasn't a mum.
Its perpetual misery at present.