Take care pal. I know pints are probably a terrible idea when you're in that state of mind but I'll also love to get you a beer and slag off Ross together. Don't think I'm coming across to Fulham though you aren't worth that.
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Take care pal. I know pints are probably a terrible idea when you're in that state of mind but I'll also love to get you a beer and slag off Ross together. Don't think I'm coming across to Fulham though you aren't worth that.
chopsfc007
Striker
Ill, no motivation no bird no social life no anything
I’m in south east cornwall but that was in response to the the op not having friends where he was and going overseas would be warmer.
D.A
Striker
What are you going to do about it?
Might sound corny but get some self improvement books.
also look at the positives - you're young, you've got an income, you support a great team...
Also, while people laugh at you on here occasionally I don't think it's meant to be malicious. Take it as a bit of fun and stop arguing with everyone!
Who’s he support like?
Yeah I know, I just wondered marra
I’m on Bodmin moor. A village called Darite
gipetto
Striker
Glad you're ok mate.
Left For Dead
Winger
You can see it in your posts- mind- the first step is being honeat when you are in a slump- next step is asking how you got there - i dont have the answers- but i do know stopping alcohol or getting pissed clears the mind and lifts you-
Might sound corny but get some self improvement books.
also look at the positives - you're young, you've got an income, you support a great team...
Also, while people laugh at you on here occasionally I don't think it's meant to be malicious. Take it as a bit of fun and stop arguing with everyone!
That book by the US navy seal is amazing- called total ownership - or something like that
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Left For Dead
Winger
Git canny that- we are all the same- same bodies and brain- its a good place to start the rebuild
Watching Sunderland isn't good for anyone's mental health
JC22
Midfield
Honestly mate I’d try get out and get a job you like with good people. Even if the moneys the same as what you’re on now being in the company of people and having a laugh with really help cheer you up.
I met my lass through a dating app like so don’t be scared to do that. Might find it really boosts your confidence if you get on and get out for drinks with lasses. Definitely did for me. Went out with some really nice lasses who I never thought in a million years I could pull and even though it doesn’t always work out it boosts your self esteem and you get some company and maybe a good laugh.
As for friends it’s a tough one when you get to that age. I’m almost 28 so barely see my mates cos everyone’s settling down so it can be shit I understand. One of my best mates actually I met years ago through an Internet forum similar to this believe it or not. Started out swapping records as teenagers and with us both being local and into the same stuff and we ended up getting on really well and became really good mates. Bit of a mad way to meet a friend but it’s definitely possible even as an adult.
Mr Redknapp
Striker
The Dalai Lama was saw that first half and converted to sadism
Left For Dead
Winger
@The Rat weve had our differences in the past, they are well documented and common knowledge. We’ve given each other our fair share of lumps and bumps, so I understand if you disregard this post.
It’s a well used platitude when someone says to you when you aren’t in a good place “ you don’t know what’s round the corner” some one said it to me when I lost my parents, at the time it meant nothing, but now looking back all those years ago, it’s true. You are only a young lad and however dull or grim your life may seem now it won’t be like this forever. There are many things you can do to help improve it, many good people have posted sound advice on this thread, and I can’t add anything to that. Other than, be positive, be consistent, and with that will come confidence. Have faith in who you are, if you are at all surprised by the number and nature of posts in this thread, you really shouldn’t be, take it as a sign of how many people you have in your corner and are willing to go in to bat for you.I was once in a very dark place, I had two paths I could have taken, thankfully I picked the right one
PM me mate, even if it’s only to tell me to piss off.
Thats probably the best post ever written on the interweb and he wroute for you mr rat- id print it off and start from monday- start by walking 2 miles every morning when you get up- you start feeling the difference- eat better and force yourself to project positivity even when posting(not about safc of course)
S.S.R..
Winger
You're still young and got no ties. The world is your oyster.
Typhoonftm
Striker
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Napoleon Dynamite
Striker
wtf
daveydavey
Striker
Read David Goggins book, I’ve experienced everything you’ve set out in the OP and reading it has turned everything.
S.S.R..
Winger
That's a long title for a book.
