People separating/losing someone in later life

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Ciro_DiMarzio said:
I'm only 36 but although she does my head in it has became obvious to me recently that life would be pretty shit if me and our lass split. My chances of finding a decent replacement with my ugly looks and shite bank balance as well as my shite patter would be slim to none.
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Never forget your good bits though and put that into what you have .You get it back
 
dangermows said:
Nowt to worry about. She pester you can't be arsed. Roles reversed. Just hoy her a couple of toys and fuck off upstairs to watch MoTD.
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More the fact I've only got a double bed marra and ill get no sleep if her new lad is over.
JAZZMANB said:
Never forget your good bits though and put that into what you have .You get it back
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Aye I am sure I'd be fine eventually but would be rough at first. The kids would come first regardless.
 
JAZZMANB said:
? Why nor .
I'm 58
New lass 51
Revs right through gears
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Couldn't be arsed. Get bored if the same one. Only so many ways and so many things you can do. It's why I was a cheating bastards once upon a time and why there's the saying "no matter how beautiful the woman, there is always a bloke who is bored of f***ing her'.
 
Ciro_DiMarzio said:
I'm only 36 but although she does my head in it has became obvious to me recently that life would be pretty shit if me and our lass split. My chances of finding a decent replacement with my ugly looks and shite bank balance as well as my shite patter would be slim to none.
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It worked out for me :lol:
 
Cappuccino Kid said:
Would absolutely hate to have to be so dependant on having a partner.

People who are that attached to someone will probably die not long after their partner in older age.
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This. It'll sound sad but my dad's like that. Loves a drink, loves watching football, when I go away with him (like we went to France for the euros) he's quite laddish for a 74 year old. But when my mams with him he's a different person. Really meek, never wants to do anything that he thinks she might not approve of. When I was a bairn I'd play football with him out the back garden. If my mam was out he used to constantly walk over to the fence and look out to see if she was coming home yet. Absolutely pathetic tbh, like he couldn't be without her for a couple hours. I love having my own space, my own interests. I like spending time with the missus but I love it just as much when she goes to work for a bit or whatever. Luckily my dad's 8 years older than my mam so I imagine he'll go first, if it was the other way round I genuinely think I'd lose them both in quick succession. I'll never let myself get that reliant on someone
 
Guinness Guzzler said:
This. It'll sound sad but my dad's like that. Loves a drink, loves watching football, when I go away with him (like we went to France for the euros) he's quite laddish for a 74 year old. But when my mams with him he's a different person. Really meek, never wants to do anything that he thinks she might not approve of. When I was a bairn I'd play football with him out the back garden. If my mam was out he used to constantly walk over to the fence and look out to see if she was coming home yet. Absolutely pathetic tbh, like he couldn't be without her for a couple hours. I love having my own space, my own interests. I like spending time with the missus but I love it just as much when she goes to work for a bit or whatever. Luckily my dad's 8 years older than my mam so I imagine he'll go first, if it was the other way round I genuinely think I'd lose them both in quick succession. I'll never let myself get that reliant on someone
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Does ya da brush ya ma's hair? I bet this shite joke has already been mentioned in this thread but couldn't resist.
 
Ciro_DiMarzio said:
You split with a partner at a similar age marra?
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Late 30s, thought that would be it for me. Loved being single in my own place and wasn’t really looking for owt. Once I started going out it was unbelievable mate honest. A few young lasses as well. You’ve got to remember that I was competing with lads who spend more time looking in the mirror than the lasses do. A little bit graft and boom.
There was a polish lass mid 20s (stunning) worked in my local and all the young lads were trying to get mucked in. Within a week or two I was seeing her.
But I never thought I would settle down then I met our lass and she’s topper. The thing was once I spent time single I knew what I wanted and what I was worth instead of having a lass tell me what I was worth. It’s a cliche but I found myself.
 
beverly macca said:
Late 30s, thought that would be it for me. Loved being single in my own place and wasn’t really looking for owt. Once I started going out it was unbelievable mate honest. A few young lasses as well. You’ve got to remember that I was competing with lads who spend more time looking in the mirror than the lasses do. A little bit graft and boom.
There was a polish lass mid 20s (stunning) worked in my local and all the young lads were trying to get mucked in. Within a week or two I was seeing her.
But I never thought I would settle down then I met our lass and she’s topper. The thing was once I spent time single I knew what I wanted and what I was worth instead of having a lass tell me what I was worth. It’s a cliche but I found myself.
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Ah well. I still don't want to split with our lass but if I do there is hope. :lol:
 
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