Follow along with the video below to see how to install our site as a web app on your home screen.
Note: This feature may not be available in some browsers.
She sough me out. It did cross my mind that this just might be a ex looking for revenge etc but to be honest I dont get that impression and I genuinely believe she is only looking out for me lad.
Ask him yourself if it’s true. Tell him who told you and the reasons for your concern. No way I’d let anyone who’s potentially fractured his mrs cheekbone anywhere near my kids, the ex could be talking horse shit like so I wouldn’t go in all guns...
I don't think grassing to a potential woman beater is a good idea.
Women are colossal liars, especially bitter exes. Get your facts verified from more than one source.
This ....however if social services are aware of alleged concerns over him before it all builds a picture and they work on most likely assumption not beyond any doubt. So if his card has already been marked they may well want to have a word.I would imagine if he has no charges, there's little you can do. (Legally)
I know there is a thing called Clare’s law that I could contact the police about but I’m not sure how useful that will be if he doesn’t have an actual conviction of knocking anyone about. The lass has also given me a name and number of somebody to call at social services so I think I will call them at lunch.
Any help or advice would be great!!
agree with this and if he gets arsey get the first one in.Tough one this mate, you”l have to play it well or risk coming out looking the bad guy yourself. I’d have a word man to man with him and lay it out.
Yeah, that is the worst thing he could do.agree with this and if he gets arsey get the first one in.
I'm sure she sees it that way. Let's take it at face value, he likely didn't hit her because she burnt his tea. They were probably pissed as fuck, some horrible things were being thrown about and it happened.
Is that okay? Fuck no, of course not.
Should you be getting involved past giving your ex a heads up, which you've done, at this stage? Probably not.
If the bloke hit your ex and the police got involved, then Social Services would likely get involved too. If you think your child is at risk from this man, you could contact SS with your concerns, but otherwise I'd probably just back off a bit tbh as it may just look like gossip / hearsay etc.She sough me out. It did cross my mind that this just might be a ex looking for revenge etc but to be honest I dont get that impression and I genuinely believe she is only looking out for me lad.
Yeah I’m sure you’d just back off if it was your kids.If the bloke hit your ex and the police got involved, then Social Services would likely get involved too. If you think your child is at risk from this man, you could contact SS with your concerns, but otherwise I'd probably just back off a bit tbh as it may just look like gossip / hearsay etc.
its one of those things Phil to be honest. do you involve SS and risk the kids being taken or try and do it another wayYeah I’m sure you’d just back off if it was your kids.
This.Not a clue but get stuck into his ex