More and more are coming round to this understanding thankfully.This is it.
Everybody involved with the game is dishonest *except* the referee and his assistants.
The players, manager, coaches and fans are all incredibly one-eyed and trying to cheat any advantage they possibly can by any means necessary.
But if a referee isn't 100% perfect, it's absolute sheer dogs abuse. An absolutely thankless job, but people still trot out all the old cliches about them to try and justify their (bias-fueled) hate.
"Just want consistency"
"A good referee shouldn't be noticed"
"They should be made to explain their decisions"
"They think it's all about them"