I spoke to my Russian friend for the first time since the invasion started. Very much a mixed bag of thoughts from him. On the one hand he thinks the war is stupid and a massive failure of diplomacy and he feels sorry for the Ukrainians, however he does believe that Biden and the US have pushed Putin into a corner and are behind closed doors very pleased that there is a war so they can be more aggressive in their foreign policy towards Russia. He doesn't think Putin was asking for much before the war (i.e. Ukrainian neutrality) but that Biden and the US don't care and just want to get to Putin anyway they can. His end comment was the only winner in this war is China.
Seems to me that the Anti-US sentiment is just ingrained in a fair % of Russians. Hopefully more and more can be talked into realising its not about the US, its about how much of a massive dickbag Putin is. More rational leadership has its benefits, not the least not invading neighbouring countries on perceived slights, egotistical geopolitical posturing and historical bollocks. All this shit resulting in the death and suffering of innocent people!