Loneliness and that

Dave Herbal said:
It’s intetesing that you say that Steveo. Being in the team you would think you’d get kudos. Then again, it’s no a john hughes film, so maybe not.
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I was too nerdy to be a school ‘jock’ and too sporty to be a school nerd.

After I’d left school I bumped into a former classmate who was usually ok with me, and he said that my tormentors were jealous of me for whatever reason.

I ended up socialising with some of the total ***** for over 20 years and I only had the balls to cut them out of my life about 2 years ago.
 


Joe Public said:
Never alone often, happy enough to go for a pint on my own but rarely do. Enjoy walking the dog or running in my own, that’s about all I get.

A lot of people in here saying they love being alone but I doubt it’s that true, or you wouldn’t come on here looking for interaction with others. Humans are social beings and are generally unhappy without others. As seal said, it’s the loneliness that’s the killer.
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Those who love being alone are the ones fortunate enough to be doing it through choice rather than it being the only option. Completely different scenarios. Being lonely all the time is grim, you'd end up a fruit loop.
 
My Mrs is just after taking the kids down to see her nan. I'm on the bowl now, after sinking what looks like King King's finger into it, with the door wide open. Toilet door, not front door.

This being alone stuff is alright, like.
 
As I've just moved to a new village I probably spend about 60% of my time alone at present. Work with people for 8 hours Monday to Friday and see the missus for some of the weekend. I do like being alone through choice. That said, I need to get out and meet some people in my new surroundings at some point soon.
 
Fred Secrets said:
I have a good friend like that. Just can't be on his own. His marriage of 20 years broke down and he was out on the hunt straight away. He'd get with someone, decide that it wasn't for him & go looking again straight away. His current one now, he's with a while, but she's tough work, I reckon. I asked him to go for a pint one night when his lass was on nights, but he said no because she go mad if she found out. Another time, we were having a pint one afternoon when she was in bed after nights. She woke up, realised he wasn't there & texted him to get home from wherever he was or she would smash the house up. & he went.

I'd rather be single.
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Wow! :eek: I couldn't live like that for a second, that's no life at all.
 
Love my own space but like said that's probably because it's offset with busy stuff
Probably 25 to 30 hours a week
4 weeknights unless a friday gig and all Saturday unless work /match /gig
Work with 20 people in a mad noisy environment
Love getting home and chilling
 
Fred Secrets said:
I have a good friend like that. Just can't be on his own. His marriage of 20 years broke down and he was out on the hunt straight away. He'd get with someone, decide that it wasn't for him & go looking again straight away. His current one now, he's with a while, but she's tough work, I reckon. I asked him to go for a pint one night when his lass was on nights, but he said no because she go mad if she found out. Another time, we were having a pint one afternoon when she was in bed after nights. She woke up, realised he wasn't there & texted him to get home from wherever he was or she would smash the house up. & he went.

I'd rather be single.
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I can’t get my head around how blokes can go without sex for more than a couple of days ,I honestly couldn’t so probs fall into the cat your mates in.edit: I’d also knock her head off her shoulders talking to me like that .

TBH I find it weird how blokes /lads can go months/years without a shot off .

Stevie Freestein II said:
I was too nerdy to be a school ‘jock’ and too sporty to be a school nerd.

After I’d left school I bumped into a former classmate who was usually ok with me, and he said that my tormentors were jealous of me for whatever reason.

I ended up socialising with some of the total ***** for over 20 years and I only had the balls to cut them out of my life about 2 years ago.
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Send me there names Stevie and I’ll run them over .
 
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gillythedilf said:
I can’t get my head around how blokes can go without sex for more than a couple of days ,I honestly couldn’t so probs fall into the cat your mates in.edit: I’d also knock her head off her shoulders talking to me like that .

TBH I find it weird how blokes /lads can go months/years without a shot off .


Send me there names Stevie and I’ll run them over .
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:lol:
 
I’d count myself extremely lucky.
All my family are still alive , got wife , kids , the dog , some very good workmates , good circle of friends outside of work and mates from our golf society.
I’m very rarely alone as such but enjoy a bit quiet time if everyone at home is out.
 
I spend a lot of time alone. Some jobs I drive long distances on my own, spend all week on a site on my own, then spend the night on my own in a hotel room. It's ok when you're happy, but sometimes when you have problems or feeling down it can feel like you're in prison.

It's not being alone that's the problem, it's knowing that there's no choice
 
gillythedilf said:
I can’t get my head around how blokes can go without sex for more than a couple of days ,I honestly couldn’t so probs fall into the cat your mates in.edit: I’d also knock her head off her shoulders talking to me like that .

TBH I find it weird how blokes /lads can go months/years without a shot off .


Send me there names Stevie and I’ll run them over .
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You do realise that the vast majority of blokes who go without sex for a long time aren't doing out of choice?
 
I quite like my own space and quiet time like, but I’m guilty of taking it too far to the point I’ve isolated myself a bit from people. Very rarely hear from my mates these days as a result. Bit shit like but life goes on. My own fault as well so can’t complain too much.
 
Reptilia said:
I quite like my own space and quiet time like, but I’m guilty of taking it too far to the point I’ve isolated myself a bit from people. Very rarely hear from my mates these days as a result. Bit shit like but life goes on. My own fault as well so can’t complain too much.
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I think that just comes with age, no? The older I get, the less I can be bothered making contact with people. Presumably others are the same. Which is ironic, because it's easier than ever to get in contact with someone these days. & even at that, I'm probably the one out of my group of friends growing up who tries the most to get a couple of heads together to meet up for a few pints. People just don't, or couldn't be bothered. Maybe when all our kids grow up, things will change again.
 
gillythedilf said:
I can’t get my head around how blokes can go without sex for more than a couple of days ,I honestly couldn’t so probs fall into the cat your mates in.edit: I’d also knock her head off her shoulders talking to me like that .

TBH I find it weird how blokes /lads can go months/years without a shot off .


Send me there names Stevie and I’ll run them over .
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Wank’s as good as a buck
 

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