My response to the letter of apology request would be 'fuck off'.
This ^^
That implies guilt.
You may avoid criminal charges but what if you were sued civilly ? You're screwed.
Refuse to apologise and say nothing else.
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My response to the letter of apology request would be 'fuck off'.
Any body ever been subject to one?
During a family dispute last week I (allegedly) shoved someone - they phoned the police.
This happened 11 days ago and I assumed they had thought the claim of assault was stupid as they never came to my house on the day despite it being 30 seconds around the corner from where the argument took place.
Officer came to my house yesterday while I was out and told person there he'd ring today to arrange time to come back and conduct interview. He also said I might be required to write a letter of apology to the 'victim'.
Any ideas? Obviously I've got a bag packed, ready to flee the country.
Any body ever been subject to one?
During a family dispute last week I (allegedly) shoved someone - they phoned the police.
This happened 11 days ago and I assumed they had thought the claim of assault was stupid as they never came to my house on the day despite it being 30 seconds around the corner from where the argument took place.
Officer came to my house yesterday while I was out and told person there he'd ring today to arrange time to come back and conduct interview. He also said I might be required to write a letter of apology to the 'victim'.
Any ideas? Obviously I've got a bag packed, ready to flee the country.
The letter of apology option sounds like the plod saying "FFS, this sounds like fuck all and I don't want to write it up, but this idiot wants to complain" and hoping this will make it go away.
If writing the letter saves you a court appearance and everyone else the bother, maybe do that. If the person receiving the letter is the kind of f***ing prick to lord it over you for your apology, you'd need to word it very carefully so you're actually calling you a cunt in a way no one can take action about
If it was just a shove in the heat of the moment, I can't see it standing up in court as an assault, get a solicitor though if it goes down that path. Most likely they've agreed with the police that they would accept a letter of apology.The relative whose house it kicked off in is in bad health and was hospitalized yesterday with chest pains. I'm minded to do anything just to make this go away for him.
However, the person making this claim is an absolute c**t who would hold it over me.
I've also got a big problem with admitting in any way I've been physical toward a woman, which I'd never be.
Wasn't even pushed over mate. She was trying to get up off the sofa to get in the face of someone and I put my hand on her shoulder to stop her getting up.Imagine going to the police complaining about being pushed over.
Any body ever been subject to one?
During a family dispute last week I (allegedly) shoved someone - they phoned the police.
This happened 11 days ago and I assumed they had thought the claim of assault was stupid as they never came to my house on the day despite it being 30 seconds around the corner from where the argument took place.
Officer came to my house yesterday while I was out and told person there he'd ring today to arrange time to come back and conduct interview. He also said I might be required to write a letter of apology to the 'victim'.
Any ideas? Obviously I've got a bag packed, ready to flee the country.
This.Restorative approach i think its called.
Saves them a shit load of paperwork apparently.
Wasn't even pushed over mate. She was trying to get up off the sofa to get in the face of someone and I put my hand on her shoulder to stop her getting up.
Absolutely mental.
I might be wrong, but i think if the other party accepts the "apology", thats the end of it and cant take it any further.This.
I've googled it - it's used rather than an official caution - basically when the plod think the case is a load of sh**e.
Worried about it opening the door to being sued by the c**t, though.
So the OP battered a defenceless lass and is trying to get off an assault charge.............disgraceful.
We'll get the full story eventually.bet it wasn't just her shoulder he touched anarl,sounds like a reet wrangun
Is the person accusing you related?The relative whose house it kicked off in is in bad health and was hospitalized yesterday with chest pains. I'm minded to do anything just to make this go away for him.
However, the person making this claim is an absolute c**t who would hold it over me.
I've also got a big problem with admitting in any way I've been physical toward a woman, which I'd never be.