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TheWanderer said:
Ah still in the ‘honeymoon’ period where sex, drugs, money and socialising is aplenty, life certainly feels good during that period I’ll give you that.

You just wait until the kids come along, the work and financial pressures build up and all the shit that comes with life gets hoyed at you.

Ah, those early morning roll arounds before work, the rutting on any surface in any room in the house and especially the proper dirty drunken sex after a drink seem a long distant memory for me and many on here I’d guess!

Come back in 2021 with your tail between your legs and a hefty divorce bill and give it the old ‘satisfying their wife crack’! ;)
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Worst Best Man's speech ever.
 


pavarotti1980 said:
And what was the reaction from the ex to you taking her sister?
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They weren't very close as some sisters are, and when my ex dumped me, she often phoned to ask how I was and she was a good friend to me when I needed a friend.
What happened in NY wasn't planned, it was just how things panned out.
I dunno what my ex thought about it and couldn't have cared less tbh.

pavarotti1980 said:
As long as you smashed it, then a win win situation for all involved.

I think you should have a Blue Peter badge for initiative
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TheWanderer said:
Ah still in the ‘honeymoon’ period where sex, drugs, money and socialising is aplenty, life certainly feels good during that period I’ll give you that.

You just wait until the kids come along, the work and financial pressures build up and all the shit that comes with life gets hoyed at you.

Ah, those early morning roll arounds before work, the rutting on any surface in any room in the house and especially the proper dirty drunken sex after a drink seem a long distant memory for me and many on here I’d guess!

Come back in 2021 with your tail between your legs and a hefty divorce bill and give it the old ‘satisfying their wife crack’! ;)
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Have to say kids change the dynamics but I wouldn’t swap that for anything in the World. They make me want to get up in the Morning.
For me I had a long enjoyable single life and when I settled down it felt right.
If I told you that I didn’t want to buck loads of young girls then I would be lying.
Weighing everything up lots to lose over maybe one night of stupidity but I wouldn’t judge as shit happens.
Would I trust my Mrs if I found out she had cheated? Don’t think I could and know she wouldn’t me.
 
Swindon On Tour said:
Have to say kids change the dynamics but I wouldn’t swap that for anything in the World. They make me want to get up in the Morning.
For me I had a long enjoyable single life and when I settled down it felt right.
If I told you that I didn’t want to buck loads of young girls then I would be lying.
Weighing everything up lots to lose over maybe one night of stupidity but I wouldn’t judge as shit happens.
Would I trust my Mrs if I found out she had cheated? Don’t think I could and know she wouldn’t me.
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I’m in your shoes mate, wouldn’t swap kids for anything, enjoyed myself when I was younger, and then again during a midlife crisis, and now happily married with a family at 42.

I was responding to a jibe from a lad who’s still in the early stages of a relationship where things were so much easier, where he clearly thinks just keeping your lass happy in the bedroom is the secret to keeping a lass and for her not to stray. He’s in for a shock! :lol:
 
TheWanderer said:
I’m in your shoes mate, wouldn’t swap kids for anything, enjoyed myself when I was younger, and then again during a midlife crisis, and now happily married with a family at 42.

I was responding to a jibe from a lad who’s still in the early stages of a relationship where things were so much easier, where he clearly thinks just keeping your lass happy in the bedroom is the secret to keeping a lass and for her not to stray. He’s in for a shock! :lol:
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Indeed.........:lol:
It generally never works out how you would expect it to.
I had a fantastic innings as a single lad and all that is now are memories, names and notches on an imaginary bed post :lol::lol:

Best advice look at the Mother and avoid high maintenance at all costs.
 
Caught my ex messing about with a lad. The night I caught it was in town on a night out and he was there. I gave him a dig and then stupidly forgave her.

Couple of years later, she got wrongly deported, came back for two weeks once it was sorted and so we could try and sort out some living arrangements for when she moved back permanently. She spent some time in London with one of her mates before coming up here and went back down for the flight the day after my birthday.

I texted her mate because her phone was off, her sister was messaging me from Grand Cayman to make sure she was going to make the flight and that was when her mate basically told all that she'd never been visiting her the duration of her time here and I knew she was with some lad who was 'just a friend'

It was like a light went off in my head. I ended things there and then and organised things with her family in the main to get her stuff put into storage.

I get married in 3 weeks to my current lass and honestly, marriage, kids, mortgage whatever is there down the line if she cheated I'd be gone without a second thought
 
Ricci's Special Kebabs said:
Caught an Ex texting a bloke she met on a night out. We split up at that point and she ended up with him, proceeded to get dumped by him within 3 months.

Blessing in disguise, she hasn't aged well at all.
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I'll add to my last post that I know through mutual friends who have her on social media that my ex is still with the lad she cheated with the second time. However she's much fatter now.

Like you say, blessing in disguise really :lol:
 
pavarotti1980 said:
I guess it depends on the context though?.....
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well yes... he was comparing her to a Disney Princess and horrendous cack like that... so that was it. Done.

I had put up with him doing drugs and giving up drugs and being a basic mental case but I absolutely can not tolerate infidelity.
 
A lot of honesty on this thread.

Different situation for me. Ex binned me, and then found out she'd been seeing someone from work. knew it was right to split before I found out, so no hard feelings from me.

Not sure how I'd cope with some of the scenarios above though.
 
TheWanderer said:
Ah still in the ‘honeymoon’ period where sex, drugs, money and socialising is aplenty, life certainly feels good during that period I’ll give you that.

You just wait until the kids come along, the work and financial pressures build up and all the shit that comes with life gets hoyed at you.

Ah, those early morning roll arounds before work, the rutting on any surface in any room in the house and especially the proper dirty drunken sex after a drink seem a long distant memory for me and many on here I’d guess!

Come back in 2021 with your tail between your legs and a hefty divorce bill and give it the old ‘satisfying their wife crack’! ;)
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aint had that since 2017 fella.....actually dont think any of that novel applies
 
CatRyan said:
well yes... he was comparing her to a Disney Princess and horrendous cack like that... so that was it. Done.

I had put up with him doing drugs and giving up drugs and being a basic mental case but I absolutely can not tolerate infidelity.
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Same here.
 
CatRyan said:
well yes... he was comparing her to a Disney Princess and horrendous cack like that... so that was it. Done.

I had put up with him doing drugs and giving up drugs and being a basic mental case but I absolutely can not tolerate infidelity.
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Well thats obviously the straw that broke camels back (ps you arent the camel btw :lol::lol:)
 
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