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Got to be honest struggling a bit here.
No social group, feel like no mates, or at least not in one place all together.
Back in a mundane job, work from home, so no interaction with anyone. Jobs going nowhere, shite money, feel way behind my peers. But I’ve got no plan of what I wanna do or progress.
Nae Lass, nae plan, nae motivation, absolutely nothing planned till Christmas Day, literally
I’ve thought about many things over years, going to work remotely from abroad which maybe I could do, or all this type of shite, but not sure I’ve got any confidence left to do out.
Im 31 and I just feel like it’s going nowhere and I’m wasting me life and have wasted it so far. But no motivation to do fuck all. Feel totally alone but at the same time finding it hard to motivate to wanna talk to anyone.
Fed up!
You're never alone with the SMB marra.Got to be honest struggling a bit here.
No social group, feel like no mates, or at least not in one place all together.
Back in a mundane job, work from home, so no interaction with anyone. Jobs going nowhere, shite money, feel way behind my peers. But I’ve got no plan of what I wanna do or progress.
Nae Lass, nae plan, nae motivation, absolutely nothing planned till Christmas Day, literally
I’ve thought about many things over years, going to work remotely from abroad which maybe I could do, or all this type of shite, but not sure I’ve got any confidence left to do out.
Im 31 and I just feel like it’s going nowhere and I’m wasting me life and have wasted it so far. But no motivation to do fuck all. Feel totally alone but at the same time finding it hard to motivate to wanna talk to anyone.
Fed up!
Without trying to sound like a twat, just do stuff mate. Fuck what other people think.Got to be honest struggling a bit here.
No social group, feel like no mates, or at least not in one place all together.
Back in a mundane job, work from home, so no interaction with anyone. Jobs going nowhere, shite money, feel way behind my peers. But I’ve got no plan of what I wanna do or progress.
Nae Lass, nae plan, nae motivation, absolutely nothing planned till Christmas Day, literally
I’ve thought about many things over years, going to work remotely from abroad which maybe I could do, or all this type of shite, but not sure I’ve got any confidence left to do out.
Im 31 and I just feel like it’s going nowhere and I’m wasting me life and have wasted it so far. But no motivation to do fuck all. Feel totally alone but at the same time finding it hard to motivate to wanna talk to anyone.
Fed up!
Sounds like you have mates but they’re a bit widespread. Get on a train on a Friday after work and get out and about catching up with them over a few weekends. Mates don’t always need to be within touching distance. It’s the deeper connections that give more satisfaction.Got to be honest struggling a bit here.
No social group, feel like no mates, or at least not in one place all together.
Back in a mundane job, work from home, so no interaction with anyone. Jobs going nowhere, shite money, feel way behind my peers. But I’ve got no plan of what I wanna do or progress.
Nae Lass, nae plan, nae motivation, absolutely nothing planned till Christmas Day, literally
I’ve thought about many things over years, going to work remotely from abroad which maybe I could do, or all this type of shite, but not sure I’ve got any confidence left to do out.
Im 31 and I just feel like it’s going nowhere and I’m wasting me life and have wasted it so far. But no motivation to do fuck all. Feel totally alone but at the same time finding it hard to motivate to wanna talk to anyone.
Fed up!
Does that mean wanking it dry?I'd rather be looking within myself on a beach somewhere
No mates here and no mates there ( where ever there is) only warmer.Sounds like you need something drastic, a big step, a change. Working remotely from abroad sounds a great idea, fuck the confidence mate, get it booked and go, the confidence will come when you realise how different life can be.
Beat me to it. Pretty much exactly what I was going to say. It gives a routine too, because they know when it is walk time and will not leave you alone. Always a great welcome home.Ever thought of getting a dog...gets you out...best thing you can do if you are working from home..you will meet lots of other dog walkers...plus it’s a reason to get out of bed on a morning
I've done it for about 7 or 8 years. Can be a very isolating experience. There are days I never leave the house, but there are many pros as well.Strange thing it is working from home like. I do it now 3/4 days a week.
Some I can make 50 phonecalls but not meet a soul. You often feel like you havent grafted bizzarely too.
Dont think its for everyone.
Good luck.
Fair, just it helped me a fair bit.In my opinion it's not enough, unless you can't wait to get out of bed and log on because your job is your passion, you need to go out of your way to get out the house during the day and on an evening or you can go a bit crazy. At least in my experience.
OP sounds like he needs to make a change and start getting out a bit more. Being cooped up and feeling miserable isn't good for you.
Been there myself mate, but without the job. First thing you need is a plan, then the motivation will follow and so will the lass/etc.Got to be honest struggling a bit here.
No social group, feel like no mates, or at least not in one place all together.
Back in a mundane job, work from home, so no interaction with anyone. Jobs going nowhere, shite money, feel way behind my peers. But I’ve got no plan of what I wanna do or progress.
Nae Lass, nae plan, nae motivation, absolutely nothing planned till Christmas Day, literally
I’ve thought about many things over years, going to work remotely from abroad which maybe I could do, or all this type of shite, but not sure I’ve got any confidence left to do out.
Im 31 and I just feel like it’s going nowhere and I’m wasting me life and have wasted it so far. But no motivation to do fuck all. Feel totally alone but at the same time finding it hard to motivate to wanna talk to anyone.
Fed up!
Fair, just it helped me a fair bit.
"Where ever you go there you are" as the man saysOP, you thought about joining a group or club? Maybe doing some college short course in something?
It seems like you have a good idea on where the problems lie.
I get where you're coming from, my first thought was if he can't build a social life here then he's probably not going to have much luck abroad either, he'll have nicer weather though.