Oh that is so thoughtful in the midst of your grief. Suicide has always been appealing to me but also in my lucid moments could think of trying to cope with the pain I left behind. And your post definitely illustrates the pain your brother left behind.
Hopefully taking up messaging myself and not suicide!
Massive respect mate
God I think some of the behaviours you are describing are abusive, coercive, cruel and manipulative and maybe, possibly against the law.
Mate you need to speak out more especially if your feeling that way 100%.
Thanks very much mate, really appreciate that.Mate you need to speak out more especially if your feeling that way 100%.
Mate wise I'm the same but don't really have much of a social life as I struggle from day to day.
But even if you feel like that again I can't drink but I'd be more than happy to have a 0% if you ever need stuff off your chest
One thing I can say is never compare yourself to others as just makes you worse and most the shit what gets put on social media is usually just a glimpse of someone's life and not the full story , think a lot of them may feel the way we do on here but just keeping up appearances.
Not sure if you've seen your GP but if not medication can help. You're there for your daughter every weekend, you have loads to offer (time, security and love are the main things she needs) and it probably makes your step dad's day when you see him. I've found my friends group changed as I get older.
I have no idea where you're at, but if you fancy a beer, coffee, walk, chat, just having someone's ear. Just shout, if I can assist in anyway I will.
Thanks very much mate, I may take you up on that at some point. Cheers pal
Stop it, there is nothing self indulgent about opening yourself up and talking about difficulties you are having.
That really means a lot, thanks very much mate. Got a year in me eye, reading it. Thank you
Absolutely, the lad is doing nothing wrong and it speaks more to the person delivering it who must have serious issues going on. We all have our battles and remember just getting out of bed and living your life is a victory in itself
Fella keep your head up, it’s always darkest before the dawn. Fake it until you make it, that’s what everyone else is doing man…… it will get better but you have to make a move
Having met you briefly, I can’t see how you would deserve that kind of treatment. As said above, it’s someone else hurt, low self esteem and vile behaviour being projected onto you.
You fancy taking up running, there’s a few social running clubs around and they really are very sociable, it’s never too late and you’ll surprise yourself.
You may not think it now mate but whenever you’re in a really bad spell, just force yourself to remember that longer term, you are and will be better off without being with somebody who is capable of saying those sorts of things.
Stick in there mate and keep your chin up. I can tell from your posts on here you’re an absolutely top lad and I’m sure a great dad to your daughter. I haven’t forgotten by the way that I offered forwarding you my season ticket for a match if I’m going to miss one if I’m away etc. That offer still stands, if you don’t manage to get a season ticket sorted again this summer and I end up missing any next season I will happily forward on to you. Take care mate.
Hi Chubbs, For some reason I was reflecting on this today. That needs reporting and shared with family and friends… totally vile and unacceptable. I am guessing she wasn’t the most pleasant of individuals even before the split? Stay safe and keep your head up.
