Scoobies-Mate
Goalkeeper
I’m sorry to hear about what happened with your parents.Some men have suffered inadvertently.
My Dad was five years older than my Mam and they planned on retiring together at 65 and 60. Mam had to work longer to get her state pension and Dad was bored being in the house on his own, so he got a job delivering prescriptions for a chemist until Mam was of state pension age.
On their first holiday abroad after retiring, he had a heart attack and a stroke which left him paralysed down one side. All their retirement plans went out the window and Mam spent the next five years caring for my Dad instead.
If they'd been able to retire as they planned to, Dad would have had some time to enjoy retirement before he took ill.
There was an era of younger women married to older men.
Should have retired within a couple of years of each other but ended up too old and not healthy enough to enjoy retirement together when the usually younger wife finally retired.
Government stopped the older retiree being able to claim for the younger partner as well; at least when that was in play if you didn’t mind being cash poor you could have been time rich and enjoyed some time together.
Work for 50yrs and with many of the manual jobs in the region by the time you get to 66/67 you’re knackered.
The whole system needs an overhaul.