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peil said:
Yup, ruined my oldest lads 3rd birthday by behaving like an utter twat to all and sundry. Wasn't even pissed, just wanted out of the situation and acting like an utter dick was how I went about it.
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I would feel a kind of pressure to be happy and have a good day and it would cause me to snap when under the influence. Some of the worst moments of my life have been these kind of incidents; gone from being a nice lad to a f***ing pycho, and it's not the type of thing people forget in a hurry
 

Still struggling really badly, trying to help myself with running & did the neon run yesterday but truth be told it's taking every bit of my energy not to grab my duvet & just nest in the corner of my room away from the world.

Back at the gp & the hospital this week but right now I don't feel like I'll ever be me again & returning to my life as it should be feels impossible. I want to reach out for help but I don't want anyone to see me either.
 
Never been depressed, but never felt as low as in march when our IVF failed and over £5k down the drain, we could of had councilling, but doctor thought we were strong enough to get through it, which we were.

Now north yorkshire has been given 1 free go per couple, and look set to go through it after christmas, just on my mind now and again and how it could effect us if it fails again......

But there are worse people off than yourself, as i have a nice home,great wife, and some very good friends.....

Following SAFC does not help.
 
TAFKAHM said:
Never been depressed, but never felt as low as in march when our IVF failed and over £5k down the drain, we could of had councilling, but doctor thought we were strong enough to get through it, which we were.

Now north yorkshire has been given 1 free go per couple, and look set to go through it after christmas, just on my mind now and again and how it could effect us if it fails again......

But there are worse people off than yourself, as i have a nice home,great wife, and some very good friends.....

Following SAFC does not help.
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and spare cash and xmas
 
TAFKAHM said:
Never been depressed, but never felt as low as in march when our IVF failed and over £5k down the drain, we could of had councilling, but doctor thought we were strong enough to get through it, which we were.

Now north yorkshire has been given 1 free go per couple, and look set to go through it after christmas, just on my mind now and again and how it could effect us if it fails again......

But there are worse people off than yourself, as i have a nice home,great wife, and some very good friends.....

Following SAFC does not help.
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Don't want to pry but I've been there. If it helps (I know it doesn't) but I now have 3 kids. However in the summer of 2012 we were where you are now.

Shaw tarse said:
Rang them and have an appointment to see someone on Wednesday
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Nice one. I was told there's a 2 month waiting list!
 
curlypermsareback said:
Don't want to pry but I've been there. If it helps (I know it doesn't) but I now have 3 kids. However in the summer of 2012 we were where you are now.


Nice one. I was told there's a 2 month waiting list!
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I have been in touch with them before but cancelled due to felling better. That was stupid as I've heard nothing but good things about them.
And I was honest on the phone about how I was feeling.
 
TAFKAHM said:
Never been depressed, but never felt as low as in march when our IVF failed and over £5k down the drain, we could of had councilling, but doctor thought we were strong enough to get through it, which we were.

Now north yorkshire has been given 1 free go per couple, and look set to go through it after christmas, just on my mind now and again and how it could effect us if it fails again......

But there are worse people off than yourself, as i have a nice home,great wife, and some very good friends.....

Following SAFC does not help.
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This for me, I've never been depressed, but after my younger sister died and her new born baby daughter died (because of my sisters illness) I was as low as I've ever been. The GP wanted to put depression on my sick note, but I challenged it because I was sad, traumatised, miserable, angry, a whole load of emotions but not depressed.
I have every sympathy with people genuinely depressed and it annoys me that GPs are quick to diagnose depression when it's not depression.
It does people who are genuinely and clinically depressed a disservice .
 
Shaw tarse said:
I have been in touch with them before but cancelled due to felling better. That was stupid as I've heard nothing but good things about them.
And I was honest on the phone about how I was feeling.
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I've heard good things too.
 
I't just concentrating on getting through the next 8 weeks until I get 2 weeks off over Christmas with my son. Hopefully my mood will improve the closer we get, currently I'm about a 5/10 in the happiness stakes, could be better, could be worse - but I'm hanging on in there :)
 
barbieshellsaysFTM said:
I't just concentrating on getting through the next 8 weeks until I get 2 weeks off over Christmas with my son. Hopefully my mood will improve the closer we get, currently I'm about a 5/10 in the happiness stakes, could be better, could be worse - but I'm hanging on in there :)
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8 weeks till Christmas? That's really depressed me! Bad time of year now the dark nights are here
 
no, 8 working weeks til I break up for my 2 weeks off over the Christmas period (break up Friday December 19th, cant wait ;))
 
curlypermsareback said:
Don't want to pry but I've been there. If it helps (I know it doesn't) but I now have 3 kids. However in the summer of 2012 we were where you are now.


Nice one. I was told there's a 2 month waiting list!
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How many goes at IVF did you have mate and where did you go to ?
 
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