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chunksafc said:
Come on mate, he has his issues as do you. Is it that hard to ignore him and get the help you want from others?
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Fully appreciate the people on here trying to help,in honesty chunks it's not really Hank it's the others and relentless, a prominent poster on here posted on Facebook about me being a absolute***** me playing mental health card (you probably have gathered I struggle) and no wonder I got assaulted (I act like a tit at times but at the football when I got hit I'd done literally nothing wrong)
 
chopsfc007 said:
Fully appreciate the people on here trying to help,in honesty chunks it's not really Hank it's the others and relentless, a prominent poster on here posted on Facebook about me being a absolute***** me playing mental health card (you probably have gathered I struggle) and no wonder I got assaulted (I act like a tit at times but at the football when I got hit I'd done literally nothing wrong)
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Mate it's social media, it's all shite, look at kids now who have it constantly.

You have to pick your battles (trust me I know and I lose more than I need to)

Just leave it and move on, don't so called social media friends ammunition and certainly don't fire their bullets
 
chunksafc said:
Mate it's social media, it's all shite, look at kids now who have it constantly.

You have to pick your battles (trust me I know and I lose more than I need to)

Just leave it and move on, don't so called social media friends ammunition and certainly don't fire their bullets
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Yeh it's a major flaw like I'm trying to ignore on here just elsewhere I wish people would get fed up, people who I hadn't spoken to slagging me off anyway let's hope people get bored.
 
chopsfc007 said:
Yeh it's a major flaw like I'm trying to ignore on here just elsewhere I wish people would get fed up, people who I hadn't spoken to slagging me off anyway let's hope people get bored.
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Again, maybe look at posters who posted private messages on the board or hinted at private messages on a public forum.

That has done you no favours
 
chopsfc007 said:
Fully appreciate the people on here trying to help,in honesty chunks it's not really Hank it's the others and relentless, a prominent poster on here posted on Facebook about me being a absolute***** me playing mental health card (you probably have gathered I struggle) and no wonder I got assaulted (I act like a tit at times but at the football when I got hit I'd done literally nothing wrong)
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Just chipping in as had my own issues about this place posted on this thread when i was at my worst lot not long ago, so it seems off not to say you're not alone
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If you're not in a good place, it can be pretty rough. The clique mentality doesn't help but in reality they're in a small minority. They're just noticeable

There is choice of course. But for SAFC stuff there isn't anywhere bigger. So here we are
 
chunksafc said:
Mate it's social media, it's all shite, look at kids now who have it constantly.

You have to pick your battles (trust me I know and I lose more than I need to)

Just leave it and move on, don't so called social media friends ammunition and certainly don't fire their bullets
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thats some good advice.

I should do that more, ignore the people who are just itching to cause issues, my wife gets angry that I debate so much on here, so is quite blunt, she says there's no point you will never change anyone's views.

Social media is the pits, this is my last site, but even here has issues for some.
 
AmblerThorn said:
Just chipping in as had my own issues about this place posted on this thread when i was at my worst lot not long ago, so it seems off not to say you're not alone
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If you're not in a good place, it can be pretty rough. The clique mentality doesn't help but in reality they're in a small minority. They're just noticeable

There is choice of course. But for SAFC stuff there isn't anywhere bigger. So here we are
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Just people who have no bottle at all but yeh I'm trying to improve how I post
 
chrismisterx said:
thats some good advice.

I should do that more, ignore the people who are just itching to cause issues, my wife gets angry that I debate so much on here, so is quite blunt, she says there's no point you will never change anyone's views.

Social media is the pits, this is my last site, but even here has issues for some.
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Social media is terrible for kids and even worse for adults.

Look at Facebook with people posting their perfect weekends doing perfect things while some are struggling to pay bills or put food on the table.

Life is hard enough without what's supposed to be relaxation causing issues
AmblerThorn said:
Just chipping in as had my own issues about this place posted on this thread when i was at my worst lot not long ago, so it seems off not to say you're not alone
.
If you're not in a good place, it can be pretty rough. The clique mentality doesn't help but in reality they're in a small minority. They're just noticeable

There is choice of course. But for SAFC stuff there isn't anywhere bigger. So here we are
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See the clique comment, you have been on here 2 years, some have been on here 15 plus years and meet off the board.

Yet here you are posting about a clique that actually doesn't exist, God forbid you had posted in 2006 to 2010, this place was could be brutal but also the most helpful place in the world.

I've met people off here that I consider huge friends, that have supported me and my family thorough the worst times, no doubt they are labelled the clique but after 10 plus years they are mates
 
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chunksafc said:
Social media is terrible for kids and even worse for adults.

Look at Facebook with people posting their perfect weekends doing perfect things while some are struggling to pay bills or put food on the table.

Life is hard enough without what's supposed to be relaxation causing issues

See the clique comment, you have been on here 2 years, some have been on here 15 plus years and meet off the board.

Yet here you are posting about a clique that actually doesn't exist, God forbid you had posted in 2006 to 2010, this place was could be brutal but also the most helpful place in the world.

I've met people off here that I consider huge friends, that have supported me and my family thorough the worst times, no doubt they are labelled the clique but after 10 plus years they are mates
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You seem a bit too angry to engage with much in all honesty

If a gang of pals who want the forum to themselves and exclude others is how you see it, go and set up a WhatsApp group with them. Bye
 
chunksafc said:
Social media is terrible for kids and even worse for adults.

Look at Facebook with people posting their perfect weekends doing perfect things while some are struggling to pay bills or put food on the table.

Life is hard enough without what's supposed to be relaxation causing issues

See the clique comment, you have been on here 2 years, some have been on here 15 plus years and meet off the board.

Yet here you are posting about a clique that actually doesn't exist, God forbid you had posted in 2006 to 2010, this place was could be brutal but also the most helpful place in the world.

I've met people off here that I consider huge friends, that have supported me and my family thorough the worst times, no doubt they are labelled the clique but after 10 plus years they are mates
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There's a clique who pile on posts and who collectively slag People of behind their backs, however some people have genuinely met friends for life and have great support on here and in person.
 
AmblerThorn said:
You seem a bit too angry to engage with much in all honesty

If a gang of pals who want the forum to themselves and exclude others is how you see it, go and set up a WhatsApp group with them. Bye
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I've been on here long enough to not get angry, feel free to hit the ignore button
chopsfc007 said:
Yeh it's a major flaw like I'm trying to ignore on here just elsewhere I wish people would get fed up, people who I hadn't spoken to slagging me off anyway let's hope people get bored.
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Like I said, have a look closer to home at so called friends
 
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chunksafc said:
I've been on here long enough to not get angry, feel free to hit the ignore button
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Couldn't care less how long you've been on here. Neither can anyone else i imagine. it's an internet forum not a career

All you're doing is having a go at another poster. On a depression thread. Think about it. You really need to stop.
 
You will never change someone's opinion on social media so I would suggest just stopping before you post and asking yourself..... if this person really worth arguing with...... Is their opinion that important to me or is responding just going to cause me more stress.
We seem to be getting to a point in this thread where we are beginning to go round in circles and it might be worth trying to draw a line under it.
 
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