Gosh. Are you sure you are doing the right thing. Reach out and tell her what you have just told us. I am sure the pair of you can work through this together.
As @CPLforever says be honest with her and let her read which way you been feeling mate and I bet she will be just as hurt as you. You need the people who love you around you mate at this moment in time
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I imagine you're going through the natural stages of ending a relationship, when you've let the dust settle you'll think differently. It won't be a case of you hurting people it's only because you're feeling a bit down. Life will go on, dust yourself down over the next few days, think positively & objectively for and about yourself and it won't seem so bad
I know the exact feeling you are going through as I did the same myself (though there were also other lesser reasons). I don't know the ins and outs, but I will say one thing - if you really do love her and think there is any chance you will make a go of it later, tell her you love her as early as possible, even if you still need the space. I waited 4-5 weeks and by that point she didn't believe the part about me still loving her when I told her the truth. It did work out for the best, but it was more crushing than anything at the time.
I'm pleased! Hope it goes well
Just keep opening up and being honest with her and it will go a million miles
First line: "Another woman" is something you'll need to work hard at to get beyond, it's possible mind seeing as she's mentioned her concern. It's something you'll both have to dit down and talk about (without anyone else's input). Bear in mind there are two people in every relationship.
Defs got a keeper there mate. Well done on telling her what’s going on. Big step forward!
Not at all mate one thing on here though should never be embarrassed about anything.
Anything but, as lucky says above.
That's the way to move forward with it.
No, I love being with my family but having friends helps with loneliness.
Obviously entirely your choice, but have you considered going to a therapy session and taking your wife with you? I don’t mean for a couples session but for her to hear how you’re feeling.
That's a good idea.
