I agree with what a couple of others have said, it is a scare story to keep you investing into pensions longer.
I earn a decent wage, my wife is ok but often earns below national average (she is freelance so it changes a lot).
If we added up what we earn now, take off things like the higher tax I pay, take away pension contributions, take away what we are putting into savings, the £2-3k I spend on commuting, and the big one, mortgage payments, I bet that is not anywhere close to the moderate level.
But when I look at our lives, we don't have cash to spread about and do need to think about the bigger purchases. We are not skint either. Things like the old car needing replacing in a hurry were annoying but achievable without a worry. I would say that is a moderate life.
And all this is with two teenagers at home, needing clothing and feeding. If my son left home, the electricity bill alone would drop significantly!
I'm aiming for £40-£45k income for the two of us in retirement, but occasionally I wonder if that is too much and will have me working for longer than I need.
Don't know your circumstances, tastes etc but that's more than my budget.
Broadly speaking £500 a month on bills (council tax, utilities etc) 500 groceries, 500 a month pocket money i.e. clothes,nights out (for me, missus rarely bothers), 500 a month towards holidays. Some months more, some less. Around 400 this month so far on trainers and couple of pairs of shorts but might spend nowt next couple of months. Or more if I see something i like...
Appreciate I'm council tax band A so that's only 145 a month, some on here will no doubt pay a lot more. Odd one offs like season ticket, car service, insurance on top but £25k seems ok here. With the buffer of being able to dip into lump sum/past savings for more when needed.
Will spend more on holidays when missus retires but that 2-3 years away mebbes, and we'll have the bonus then of more flexibility .