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Depression thread continued...


In a strange phase at the moment. All week I have been pretty optimistic and happy while at work but once I get home I am sitting there struggling to hold back the tears and feelings really anxious. I've seen the kids tonight and now I'm sitting in the pub scared to go home because I know I will be the same again tonight as soon as I get home.
 
In a strange phase at the moment. All week I have been pretty optimistic and happy while at work but once I get home I am sitting there struggling to hold back the tears and feelings really anxious. I've seen the kids tonight and now I'm sitting in the pub scared to go home because I know I will be the same again tonight as soon as I get home.
Ah mate I hope your OK and these dark nights don't help , how was it with kids ?❤️
 
It's a really hard one mate and really feel for you , Is there anyway you can have them more often or even overnight ?
I'm waiting for the flat I'm moving into to be ready mate but it's atleast a couple of weeks away so just seeing them once or twice a week for a couple of hours at the moment. Really tough when before I moved out the longest I'd ever not seen them for was 2 days. I'm missing the things I used to take for granted like school runs and cooking tea for them etc.
 
In a strange phase at the moment. All week I have been pretty optimistic and happy while at work but once I get home I am sitting there struggling to hold back the tears and feelings really anxious. I've seen the kids tonight and now I'm sitting in the pub scared to go home because I know I will be the same again tonight as soon as I get home.
Why is your only option the pub, anywhere else you can go if not at home?
 
In a strange phase at the moment. All week I have been pretty optimistic and happy while at work but once I get home I am sitting there struggling to hold back the tears and feelings really anxious. I've seen the kids tonight and now I'm sitting in the pub scared to go home because I know I will be the same again tonight as soon as I get home.
Well take it easy, and keep yer credit card in yer wallet.

Do i sound like yer Ma? 😁

You'll be fine, deep breath, find something on the tellybox and relax.
I'm waiting for the flat I'm moving into to be ready mate but it's atleast a couple of weeks away so just seeing them once or twice a week for a couple of hours at the moment. Really tough when before I moved out the longest I'd ever not seen them for was 2 days. I'm missing the things I used to take for granted like school runs and cooking tea for them etc.
Might of missed a few posts but didn't know you had found new digs. Well done. That was a huge hurdle but you got there in rhe end.

Only a few weeks and you will be able to have them round for overnights.
 
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Well take it easy, and keep yer credit card in yer wallet.

Do i sound like yer Ma? 😁

You'll be fine, deep breath, find something on the tellybox and relax.

Might of missed a few posts but didn't know you had found new digs. Well done. That was a huge hurdle but you got there in rhe end.

Only a few weeks and you will be able to have them round for overnights.
Yeah. I was hoping to be moved in by now but have no official date yet which is stressing me out.
 
@Rhubarb has sent me a message asking me to post that he can't post at the minute because of an issue with the email address registered to his account. Just incase people were wondering where he was.
Hey.

Wondering how Rhubarb is.

Hope he is OK and, if you in touch, pass on my regards.

Also hope you are having a good coping weekend. How's the new digs progressing?
 
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God you wouldn't want to be in a hurry would you.

Hang on in there.
Yeah it's frustrating as I'm desperate to be in but if the work isn't done I can't really do anything about it.
God you wouldn't want to be in a hurry would you.

Hang on in there.
Rhubarb is ok. He's still locked out of his account but is going to try and sort it tomorrow. He said to thank you for thinking about him.
 
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