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Depression thread continued...

Gennaro Savastano said:
I have seen those. If somebody wants to call you out like that they should atleast have the balls to post under their real name.
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By the way the person who hits me was unprevoked hence stadium ban, I do struggle with my mental health, and I'd say calling me what they did behind my back makes them exactly what they say I am, oh did I mention the same person creepily finding me on different social media media ages ago to send me abuse and not even saying how they knew who I am.
 

chopsfc007 said:
By the way the person who hits me was unprevoked hence stadium ban, I do struggle with my mental health, and I'd say calling me what they did behind my back makes them exactly what they say I am, oh did I mention the same person creepily finding me on different social media media ages ago to send me abuse and not even saying how they knew who I am.
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Emptied my inbox mate.
 
chopsfc007 said:
By the way the person who hits me was unprevoked hence stadium ban, I do struggle with my mental health, and I'd say calling me what they did behind my back makes them exactly what they say I am, oh did I mention the same person creepily finding me on different social media media ages ago to send me abuse and not even saying how they knew who I am.
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Its why this is the only social media I have now, some nasty people in the world.

If it wasn't for the community on here I would be tempted to lose this site too, but to date its been more helpful than bad and with just 1 or 2 rare exceptions people on here have been decent, in all the years on here only one person left me disappointed in them, I was warned in advance just didn't believe it.

Anyway, my advice try and ignore it best you can and work on your own mental health mate, its hard like, but maybe if you're in a better place it will be easier?
 
chopsfc007 said:
By the way the person who hits me was unprevoked hence stadium ban, I do struggle with my mental health, and I'd say calling me what they did behind my back makes them exactly what they say I am, oh did I mention the same person creepily finding me on different social media media ages ago to send me abuse and not even saying how they knew who I am.
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Id certainly suggest binning the lot mate, even just temporarily, till youre in a better place.
 
Let's reset. Life is hard enough without people, taking pleasure in others hardship. A posters previous by-line (?) has always stuck with me. You don't have to blow out someone else's candle to make your own burn brighter (paraphrasing). We all disagree on this board but personal attacks aren't on. Take a breath and no matter how we feel about a poster or their opinions if we see them struggling don't pile on.
 
CPLforever said:
Let's reset. Life is hard enough without people, taking pleasure in others hardship. A posters previous by-line (?) has always stuck with me. You don't have to blow out someone else's candle to make your own burn brighter (paraphrasing). We all disagree on this board but personal attacks aren't on. Take a breath and no matter how we feel about a poster or their opinions if we see them struggling don't pile on.
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I do appreciate you and others I've removed myself from the group so they can crack on.
 
Gennaro Savastano said:
Just been for a long walk on my own and I'm just consumed by dark thoughts now. Can't see a way out I really can't. People keep telling me it will get better but I just can't see it. Everyday is just painful from waking up to going to sleep.
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I don't know why I don't enter this thread more often.

But seeing your post reminds me I should drop in more often. As every single word of that post was me for over a year marra.

It did get better for me and that was over 2 years ago now.

As much as your probably sick of hearing the words of it will get better. As nobody will ever understand truly what it's your head(as it was for me).

There will be some spark or moment in your life where suddenly your head starts to clear and whatever the fuck normal is supposed to be comes back to you. Believe it mate as there's lots of us that have lived it and you will too.
 
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CPLforever said:
Hope everybody is feeling OK, or at the very least, coping.

@Gennaro Savastano are you on a late again? Hope you slept a bit better last night.
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Yeah I'll be finishing about this time all week. I didn't sleep great but it was die to the heat rather than horrible dreams so an improvement.
mackembhoy said:
I don't know why I don't enter this thread more often.

But seeing your post reminds me I should drop in more often. As every single word of that post was me for over a year marra.

It did get better for me and that was over 2 years ago now.

As much as your probably sick of hearing the words of it will get better. As nobody will ever understand truly what it's your head(as it was for me).

There will be some spark or moment in your life where suddenly your head starts to clear and whatever the fuck normal is supposed to be comes back to you. Believe it mate as there's lots of us that have lived it and you will too.
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I hope it does mate but the last two days has just brought more pressure. I must be due some good luck soon.
 
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mackembhoy said:
I don't know why I don't enter this thread more often.

But seeing your post reminds me I should drop in more often. As every single word of that post was me for over a year marra.

It did get better for me and that was over 2 years ago now.

As much as your probably sick of hearing the words of it will get better. As nobody will ever understand truly what it's your head(as it was for me).

There will be some spark or moment in your life where suddenly your head starts to clear and whatever the fuck normal is supposed to be comes back to you. Believe it mate as there's lots of us that have lived it and you will too.
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What a cracking post mate.
Gennaro Savastano said:
Yeah I'll be finishing about this time all week. I didn't sleep great but it was die to the heat rather than horrible dreams so an improvement.

I hope it does mate but the last two days has just brought more pressure. I must be due some good luck soon.
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You’re in the middle of those big grey storm clouds.
You will come out the other side. Please don’t suffer in silence and so many decent people are out there that will give you the time and support you deserve.
Wish I was around the corner Mate.
 
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mackembhoy said:
I don't know why I don't enter this thread more often.

But seeing your post reminds me I should drop in more often. As every single word of that post was me for over a year marra.

It did get better for me and that was over 2 years ago now.

As much as your probably sick of hearing the words of it will get better. As nobody will ever understand truly what it's your head(as it was for me).

There will be some spark or moment in your life where suddenly your head starts to clear and whatever the fuck normal is supposed to be comes back to you. Believe it mate as there's lots of us that have lived it and you will too.
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Bang on mate.

It’s easy for people to say, but I also know that things do get better and the shit times won’t last.

@Gennaro Savastano my inbox is always open mate. Good on you for getting on here and talking. Plenty good folk here to help as well.
 
CPLforever said:
Hope everybody is feeling OK, or at the very least, coping.

@Gennaro Savastano are you on a late again? Hope you slept a bit better last night.
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I'm still getting slagged off elsewhere I'm bragging on this thread that I cause arguments and it was me getting Hank banned when it was gim swearing at people on his own thread getting himself banned I hadn't posted on thread and hadn't reported anything.
 
chopsfc007 said:
I'm still getting slagged off elsewhere I'm bragging on this thread that I cause arguments and it was me getting Hank banned when it was gim swearing at people on his own thread getting himself banned I hadn't posted on thread and hadn't reported anything.
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Have you ever considered just ignoring hank? Not posting on his threads and accepting the 2 of you don't get on?
 
chunksafc said:
Have you ever considered just ignoring hank? Not posting on his threads and accepting the 2 of you don't get on?
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What are his threads? If you mean his TV ones I don't if you mean his match threads I'm entitled to post on them anyway, I haven't been abusive to him in a few years and I still get him and others slagging me off on a thread on a site I don't use, he can't even remember on his TV thread swearing at someone I'm getting blamed for him being banned and it's literally nothing to do with me.
 
chopsfc007 said:
What are his threads? If you mean his TV ones I don't if you mean his match threads I'm entitled to post on them anyway, I haven't been abusive to him in a few years and I still get him and others slagging me off on a thread on a site I don't use, he can't even remember on his TV thread swearing at someone I'm getting blamed for him being banned and it's literally nothing to do with me.
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Mate you have posted on his tv threads numerous times. Its not difficult to ignore them.

I offered some advice, don't make a big drama out of it
 
chunksafc said:
Mate you have posted on his tv threads numerous times. Its not difficult to ignore them.

I offered some advice, don't make a big drama out of it
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Not for ages though and nothing abusive mate I get what you're saying but people are ridiculous going on a site I don't use and slagging me off behind my back that's out of order, am I meant to ignore people calling me behind my back as well I probably should but yeh it's hard, I can take that to a certain extent but I'm not having people blame me for something I have nothing to do with.
 
chopsfc007 said:
Not for ages though and nothing abusive mate I get what you're saying but people are ridiculous going on a site I don't use and slagging me off behind my back that's out of order, am I meant to ignore people calling me behind my back as well I probably should but yeh it's hard, I can take that to a certain extent but I'm not having people blame me for something I have nothing to do with.
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Mate I offered a sensible suggestion, ignore hank, don't post on his TV thread and all is good for you both

Not interested in getting into a big thing with you but maybe read the room a bit.....
 
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