Honestly? You can choose to believe whatever you like, but it didn't bother me. Would I like to see us there? Yes of course, and you must be thankful you got to experience it, but banter aside, all I care about in the football world is Sunderland. Since being relegated, I don't know an awful lot about the PL anymore, I rarely watch match of the day and I rarely watch live PL games. I know that's not necessarily the norm, but I have just as much enjoyment staying in touch with the championship and watching the rest of the highlights on Quest. Does that mean I don't want to see us in the PL, no, of course not. I want us to be the best we can possibly be.
I think the rivalry is good fun, but I do sometimes wonder if it holds both clubs back somewhat and adds an unnecessary pressure.