Walking away from an abusive relationship

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Space Hopper said:
I was in an abusive relationship and was talking to a friend one day. My friend asks, "Why do you stay with her?" I replied, "Beats me!"
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Honestly, do you have like a book of jokes sitting by the PC or something, marra? :lol: Or are you just one of those people good at jokes?
 
CatRyan said:
Great sex is just around the corner ;)
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Always wondered where that bloody G-Spot was.

tunstall birdman said:
I used to, because an ex I lived with became abusive and radged as fuck at times. I ditched her and thank fuck I did, never looked back.:)
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I was at the SAFC lasses' match today and a wifey came up and gave her bloke a real stream of abuse that went on for a couple of minutes. He seemed really mild mannered and just accepted it but I was really embarrased for both of them. God knows what they are like in private.
 
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Abu Dhabi Red and White said:
I was at the SAFC lasses' match today and a wifey came up and gave her bloke a real stream of abuse that went on for a couple of minutes. He seemed really mild mannered and just accepted it but I was really embarrased for both of them. God knows what they are like in private.
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I would not accept that if it was me. But some couples lead sad existences being together and waste their lives away.
 
Yorkiemackem said:
And starting from rock bottom not easy is it
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Didnt realise how abusive my marriage had become till it was over....Not a physical violence thing but a psychological, emotional, controlling behaviour type of abuse......Was gutted when marriage broke down due to having kids but within a year I realised what an absolute abortion of a relationship it had become.....10 years on and loving life.

Yorkiemackem said:
Probably nothing different to what many other guys on here have been thru reconciled with my ex wife 15yrs ago after she left me and the kids for another bloke that was mistake number 1 always said to my self i would not let her back in my life but felt pressurised by my kids who she minipulated.
Was never right from day 1 roll on 15yrs she is a raving alcoholic pissed more than she is sober with a vile and disgusting temper last straw came last week when she pulled a kitchen knife on me and started waving it in my face. What hurts the most is that i have been so consumed and so upset by her that i have lost all my friends and have had no one to talk to for 15yrs about how i feel. Plus i know this might sound soppy but its awful when you have no one to give love to and you dont receive any love in your life. Im registered disabled after an accident at work 3yrs ago and know find myself living in my caravan what a pile of shit life can be sometimes.[/QUOTE]

I would live on the streets before I ever put up with an abusive relationship again.....There are loads of facebook groups where people live alternative lifestyles or van lifestyles......Mate not being funny but van living is considered cool as fuck these days.
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CatRyan said:
Congratulations. Best out of it and every day it gets better.
Great sex is just around the corner ;)
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You are like one of them black widow spiders :lol:
 
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Yorkiemackem said:
Probably nothing different to what many other guys on here have been thru reconciled with my ex wife 15yrs ago after she left me and the kids for another bloke that was mistake number 1 always said to my self i would not let her back in my life but felt pressurised by my kids who she minipulated.
Was never right from day 1 roll on 15yrs she is a raving alcoholic pissed more than she is sober with a vile and disgusting temper last straw came last week when she pulled a kitchen knife on me and started waving it in my face. What hurts the most is that i have been so consumed and so upset by her that i have lost all my friends and have had no one to talk to for 15yrs about how i feel. Plus i know this might sound soppy but its awful when you have no one to give love to and you dont receive any love in your life. Im registered disabled after an accident at work 3yrs ago and know find myself living in my caravan what a pile of shit life can be sometimes.
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As a professional and serial 'spending a lot of wasted years and having kids with the wrong women' my advice is this.
Work out what you want and what would make you happy, the things you MUST leave out of the equating are as follows.
YOUR EX (obvious reasons)
WOMEN AND SEX (or you will be back to square one due to desperation with some other psycho bitch) stick to wanking for the time being
YOUR KIDS (within reason don't just fuck them off pay your way and keep contact)

So you end up with a list that's about you and your wellbeing, until you have achieved or positively working toward the items on your list you can't make a rational decision on the other three.

You need an even keel for journey ahead brother.
Your in stormy waters in an out of control boat (caravan). Either hide under the deck (soft furnishings) or grab that tiller arm (jockey wheel) and steer yourself to safety.

Your disabled so there will be help priority's with housing which tbf is top of your list.
Good luck my friend.
 
Yorkiemackem said:
Probably nothing different to what many other guys on here have been thru reconciled with my ex wife 15yrs ago after she left me and the kids for another bloke that was mistake number 1 always said to my self i would not let her back in my life but felt pressurised by my kids who she minipulated.
Was never right from day 1 roll on 15yrs she is a raving alcoholic pissed more than she is sober with a vile and disgusting temper last straw came last week when she pulled a kitchen knife on me and started waving it in my face. What hurts the most is that i have been so consumed and so upset by her that i have lost all my friends and have had no one to talk to for 15yrs about how i feel. Plus i know this might sound soppy but its awful when you have no one to give love to and you dont receive any love in your life. Im registered disabled after an accident at work 3yrs ago and know find myself living in my caravan what a pile of shit life can be sometimes.
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Been through similar, I was a bit of a lad when I met the ex, but after 7 years I got worn down and was a shadow of myself, almost a year of freedom and I feel almost back to normal, I'm off the medication and stopped the drinking that followed the break up, and starting to enjoy life, hang in for a while it's a cliche but time will sort it out, good luck.
 
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