Your player did a looping header towards Ballard and the ginger kid. Ballard was facing down the pitch, your lad was sideways on. He comes across Ballard and leads into him with his elbow with no attempt to play the ball as Ballard attacks and wins the the ball. It's a terrible challenge and worthy of a red card IMO as he's only ever going to injure a player doing that.
How the fuck is that or any aerial challenge ever a shoulder charge? A shoulder charge is when 2 players are side by side with the ball in front of them, usually on the deck. They lean into each other.
Seriously you haven't got a single clue what you're talking about