• The first stage of the forum upgrades has now been completed but they remain in a degraded state and are still being worked on.
    Please read this thread for more details.
    New user registrations are currently disabled.

Really minor annoyances

I've been waiting months for an appointment after referral to a specialist about a health issue. I got a phone call from the hospital yesterday saying a consultant had looked at my notes and he wanted to speak to me. I arranged a phone call this afternoon.

He rang and said I've been referred to the wrong department. He told me the correct department. He can't transfer me and said I need to go back to the GP and request a new referral to the correct department.

I've rang the GP. The receptionist cannot take details of this over the phone. I have to fill in a online e-consult and explain what has happened, only all the online spaces are full today so it's currently offline. I've got to try logging on at 8am tomorrow morning, but it might take a few goes as they only have limited slots and the website gets overloaded. If I get on and find it's full, I just have to keep trying every day until I manage to fill a form in. I did ask why she couldn't take the details over the phone and was told "this is our new way of working".

Once the GP has looked at it, I'll hopefully get referred but I'll have to wait several months again for an appointment with correct department.
Then consider what the likes of the Daily Mail and a current Reform policy is, about cutting admin in the NHS. People don't like the idea that any NHS money goes on people that are not medical staff. But when you slash that, you have dirty buildings which are falling apart and consultants spending their time trying to do admin rather than treat people. A really good admin person would have that sorted in minutes.

I had something a few years ago where I needed a scan. After months of waiting a date came through when I was booked to be on holiday. So I called the number, they said they would arrange a new appointment and a new letter would come out (they could not give me a slot over the phone). Nothing came so I called up to check. The person had cancelled the appointment rather than set to rearrange, so I was noted declining treatment.

When I called they said I would need to start the process again, because I had pretty much fallen off that track. I wrote to patient services pointing out that a mistake by a single person was going to be me using a GP slot to say I still have a problem, please refer me. Then I'd be referred and go to the same consultant who would waste an appointment saying I needed a scan and then I'd be back on the waiting list for a scan 6 months later. Each state would add to their waiting lists and waste medical staff time because of one mis-click. To their credit they called me within a day, acknowledged it was their mistake and the process was stupid, could I come for a scan that weekend.

It is worth seeing if there is a patient services or something you can write to and spell out every step of the process they are making you jump through, say "or you could just do this...", point out that you are an intelligent person and although it is frustrating you can deal with it but fear that elderly and more vulnerable people might not get treatment because of complicated processes.
 

The pair of f***ing bovine twatbaskets who seemed to be making a point of blocking every doorway and corridor in a public building today so they could park their pushchairs and have a chat. They didn't respond to a polite "excuse me" and were giving death stares when people had to push past. From that demographic who think the entire universe revolves around them because they've performed the utterly unique task of squeezing a brat out of themselves to join them in wasting precious oxygen
 
Then consider what the likes of the Daily Mail and a current Reform policy is, about cutting admin in the NHS. People don't like the idea that any NHS money goes on people that are not medical staff. But when you slash that, you have dirty buildings which are falling apart and consultants spending their time trying to do admin rather than treat people. A really good admin person would have that sorted in minutes.

I had something a few years ago where I needed a scan. After months of waiting a date came through when I was booked to be on holiday. So I called the number, they said they would arrange a new appointment and a new letter would come out (they could not give me a slot over the phone). Nothing came so I called up to check. The person had cancelled the appointment rather than set to rearrange, so I was noted declining treatment.

When I called they said I would need to start the process again, because I had pretty much fallen off that track. I wrote to patient services pointing out that a mistake by a single person was going to be me using a GP slot to say I still have a problem, please refer me. Then I'd be referred and go to the same consultant who would waste an appointment saying I needed a scan and then I'd be back on the waiting list for a scan 6 months later. Each state would add to their waiting lists and waste medical staff time because of one mis-click. To their credit they called me within a day, acknowledged it was their mistake and the process was stupid, could I come for a scan that weekend.

It is worth seeing if there is a patient services or something you can write to and spell out every step of the process they are making you jump through, say "or you could just do this...", point out that you are an intelligent person and although it is frustrating you can deal with it but fear that elderly and more vulnerable people might not get treatment because of complicated processes.

It gets better. I managed to fill in the online e-consult form just after 8am yesterday. I'd not heard anything back, so I rang them about 5pm this evening. After spending 43 minutes on hold in a queue, I was told they had the form but only the GP who did the original referral is allowed to look at re-referring me to the correct department. He's on holiday this week so hopefully I should hear from him early next week when he's back at work.
 
It gets better. I managed to fill in the online e-consult form just after 8am yesterday. I'd not heard anything back, so I rang them about 5pm this evening. After spending 43 minutes on hold in a queue, I was told they had the form but only the GP who did the original referral is allowed to look at re-referring me to the correct department. He's on holiday this week so hopefully I should hear from him early next week when he's back at work.
That is just stupid. They have other qualified people and the referral will be in your notes anyway.
 
Neighbours who have two cars and a very large works van who insist on parking on the road at all times despite having space for three vehicles on their drives, leaving their drives completely empty yet blocking other people`s drives and causing an obstruction on the road.
 
Neighbours who have two cars and a very large works van who insist on parking on the road at all times despite having space for three vehicles on their drives, leaving their drives completely empty yet blocking other people`s drives and causing an obstruction on the road.
That seems to be common, except I usually see it as one car on the drive and a few other cars on the road, or worse - on the path.

There is a taxi that everyone hates on one of the local through roads. Room for 2 cars on the drive, obviously one of them is a taxi driver, but the taxi is always on the road, and they live on a bend so it is common for people to move out to pass it, only to suddenly see oncoming traffic and having to squeeze back in.
 
In Sainsbury's when you use the smartshop app some shops can automatically detect where you are (Sunderland North Sainsbury's auto detects) but others you have to hunt out a QR code to show which shop you are in (Washington Galleries)
 
I've rented a house in Dorset for the weekend and the amount of times I've stubbed my toe is off the charts. This has got to be on purpose. I almost cried today.
 
The pair of f***ing bovine twatbaskets who seemed to be making a point of blocking every doorway and corridor in a public building today so they could park their pushchairs and have a chat. They didn't respond to a polite "excuse me" and were giving death stares when people had to push past. From that demographic who think the entire universe revolves around them because they've performed the utterly unique task of squeezing a brat out of themselves to join them in wasting precious oxygen
That is funny. I hate a yummy mummies.

Another minor annoyance, those blokes who strut around with their babies in a sling at their fronts, a smug, self congratulatory look on their faces. You just know that is the only thing they ever do in terms of taking care of their baby. The public bit. No nappy changing, bathing, feeding or putting to bed. I want to run up and kick them in the nads. Not when they are carrying the baby of course.
 
Tesco used to sell single bags of Fisherman's Friends at 70p each.

When I bought some on Friday, I noticed they single packs were no longer available and they were selling a "value 3 pack" at £2.40. I had a bit of private grumble about a value pack costing 30p more than single bags.

Then when I opened it yesterday, I noticed the value bags are smaller and only contain 25g compared to 45g in the single bags.

70p for 45g increasing to £2.40 for 75g is one hell of a mark up.
 
I've rented a house in Dorset for the weekend and the amount of times I've stubbed my toe is off the charts. This has got to be on purpose. I almost cried today.
About 5 years ago, pre Covid, we rented a cottage in Somerset, gorgeous place, brilliant weather all week. I cracked my head about 3 times per day, every day on different door frames, ceiling beams for the whole week. I'm not even that tall...
 
About 5 years ago, pre Covid, we rented a cottage in Somerset, gorgeous place, brilliant weather all week. I cracked my head about 3 times per day, every day on different door frames, ceiling beams for the whole week. I'm not even that tall...
We stopped in an old converted boulangerie in France once. You needed full climbing gear to get down the stairs they were that steep. Sure enough went for a piss in the night. Sounded like someone threw a load of basketball down the things.
 
That is funny. I hate a yummy mummies.

Another minor annoyance, those blokes who strut around with their babies in a sling at their fronts, a smug, self congratulatory look on their faces. You just know that is the only thing they ever do in terms of taking care of their baby. The public bit. No nappy changing, bathing, feeding or putting to bed. I want to run up and kick them in the nads. Not when they are carrying the baby of course.
Peole who assume an entire lifestyle for someone after a brief glimpse of them when out.
 
Back
Top