TheDataGuy
Central Defender
But isn't the whole point of pointing out that you should try and be considerate to others to highlight that we are all different. It is not treating everyone the same, it's understanding that what you find a joke and a laugh could be offensive to someone else. You mention that bottling it up will be bad for people's mental health, but what about people who get offended by what people say? Do they not matter or is it just their 'fragile' feelings?Pretending that we're all the same, that we never dislike each other, never saying anything that might hurt someone's fragile feelings is not being nice, it's being obsequious. It's being a slave. All it means you'll bottle all this stuff up and develop a lovely set of neuroses.
I think we need to see what was said and what the punishment is before we decide if it is too much.