The soap powder
Winger
Totally know what you mean when you say why didn’t he ring why didn’t he talk to me ..... I think that every day about my mate I mentioned in the OPMy childhood mate, Paul Bond from midfield took his life a year and a half ago. He was supposed to be coming across here for Christmas. I was in the assembly with the kids giving out awards when the telephone call came through. I was devistated. I kept thinking why didn't he ring me? Why not ask me for help?
Eventually I had to accept it was what he wanted, not us, not his friends, not his family.
He didn't want to cope and more, he didn't want to struggle, he wanted out.
His memories still live on with us, and boy I miss him and wish he was still here, but he's at peace, not tortured, not struggling, but at peace.
RIP Bondy mate.
it’s heartbreaking but suppose like you say we have to accept they wanted out they didn’t want to struggle anymore
Hard times but just keep the memories mate and when you miss him think of the good times cos I know I do