Nail. Head.I don't care either way, most people are annoying wankers whatever their beliefs, who are also intolerant asshats.
However, being a straight heterosexual who society has always been on "your side" and pretending to emphasise with a gay man or woman because of social pressure is a joke, do you realise they grew up in constant fear of ridicule and rejection from society and loved ones because they were told it wasn't right to feel they way they did or do?
"Ramming it down our throats"? It's a celebration of acceptance, but it's not unconditionally, it's from behind gritted teeth with some, it's because of these people being gay is a crime or a fault or "unnatural"
Let people live they way they want, if it doesn't fit your norms so fuck, keep out of other people's lives.