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Baccyboozenbullets said:
How does one go about meeting new people and finding a new social circle after a breakup .... I've split after 19yrs she took the boys basically left me with fuk all just BILLS lol. I'm just sick of sitting on my own feeling depressed when I should thinking about given my head a shake .... It's hard after all them years to have the house in silence I'm used to laughter, noise, kids fighting or have fun ... feels really strange now. I just want to get out and meet people and get on anyone have any ideas?
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Just seen this. Hobbies, if you dont have any find some. Not sure about your work situation? so what time you have available, maybe get a puppy, the pub is a good one, but be careful,I had about 5 years of really going for it. Its not good. Hobbies, find something, hope its going well
 
Baccyboozenbullets said:
How does one go about meeting new people and finding a new social circle after a breakup .... I've split after 19yrs she took the boys basically left me with fuk all just BILLS lol. I'm just sick of sitting on my own feeling depressed when I should thinking about given my head a shake .... It's hard after all them years to have the house in silence I'm used to laughter, noise, kids fighting or have fun ... feels really strange now. I just want to get out and meet people and get on anyone have any ideas?
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Broaden your horizons and your horizon will be full of broads.
 
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safcforever said:
I was based in Hereford. You?

To be honest I found it hard to adjust to civvie people. Even after the 3 years or so in still struggling


He will, I’m gonna he his mucka
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Sorry mate missed this. Was in aldershot for a short while then up to catterick. Then Dover. Guildford for a bit. To be honest that was my problem. When not working I could handle sitting about. In the end the missus fell preggers and I thought life would be better in civvy street.
I was in cattterick for the last 9 month of my service so was home every weekend so by the time I got out I was used to being out. You only been out 3 year? How long had you been in? .22?

Baccyboozenbullets said:
You know what mate I've actually pulled myself out of my arss .... I didn't think I'd do it cos of my health but I've went up and joined the GYM up next to Tescos!! I feel much better. I'm not doing much when I'm there but it's cleared the mind.
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Get in lad. Nice to hear things are looking up. Bet you look back and think ‘what the hell was I thinking?’ Nice one.
 
the boot said:
Sorry mate missed this. Was in aldershot for a short while then up to catterick. Then Dover. Guildford for a bit. To be honest that was my problem. When not working I could handle sitting about. In the end the missus fell preggers and I thought life would be better in civvy street.
I was in cattterick for the last 9 month of my service so was home every weekend so by the time I got out I was used to being out. You only been out 3 year? How long had you been in? .22?


Get in lad. Nice to hear things are looking up. Bet you look back and think ‘what the hell was I thinking?’ Nice one.
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I done 14 years. 5 at 22 then moved into a training posting and I hated what the army has become (I know everyone sees a change)

Were you an engineer then? They seem like engineer posts
 
safcforever said:
I done 14 years. 5 at 22 then moved into a training posting and I hated what the army has become (I know everyone sees a change)

Were you an engineer then? They seem like engineer posts
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No I was a para but well spotted, I went to Guildford to do an explosives course with the engineers but it was a nightmare.
Only did six year mesel.
So you joined as I got out, tbh I got out at a terrible time. Big regret.
5 with 22 no the wonder you can’t adjust matey. There was obvs a few lads who left us for a crack at it. I always fancied/dreamt of it. But I would have struggled fitness wise.
 

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