Ive found out

Idly chatting over zoom or the phone isn't and never will be anywhere close to an effective substitute for face to face contact.

All these adverts and shit on the Tele where they show a family with kids chatting happily and healthily chatting away to grand parents on zoom or friends having a group chat whilst drinking and having a laugh as if it's perfectly normal are a load of utter shite and I don't know anyone who does that. Not saying it doesn't happen, I just don't think it's normal or regular
Never heard of blokes chatting over zoom socially like
 


In my dynamic I could go years without seeing a mate and we would pick up exactly where we left off.
Its just life to me.
The wife often questions me how this occurs but I think it is a male thing. Same as taking the piss out of mates and being polite to those who aren't too close.
Spot on, same here. I don't have the need to ring blokes up every other day to chat. I don't really socialise with the lads at work but because we're around each other we're happy enough to take the piss daily.
 
Ive got loads of mates, school, football, work but sometimes go ages without seeing some of them, never Been in a click, works for me, couldn't be fkin arsed living in others pockets,.

As others have said, pick up where we left off on a night out etc and it's great
 
Sorry lads and lasses but I'm so disappointed in so many so called friends
For example walk in the blue bell after a game, pissed up mates who I've known for 40 years hugging me love you shit,yet not a word for 10 months
I've had my eyes opened and they will be told when this nightmare is over
Have they been told, and what did they say?

“who are you?”

“Where’s your car key?”
 
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My lass had just died 25.10 2019 I was in a very bad place I felt abandoned,and you drag that up fuck off you cock. And yes they have...people say they care but its just words
Was just looking for all the posts where you offered help/advice to others, instead of the other way round

Couldn’t find any, sorry for your loss and if that post is completely out of line with all the helpful and supportive posts you’ve made
 
Was just looking for all the posts where you offered help/advice to others, instead of the other way round

Couldn’t find any, sorry for your loss and if that post is completely out of line with all the helpful and supportive posts you’ve made
Op was made 2021, blokes full of shite and loves to mouth off when full of drink - his meltdown was a thing of beauty
 
Was just looking for all the posts where you offered help/advice to others, instead of the other way round

Couldn’t find any, sorry for your loss and if that post is completely out of line with all the helpful and supportive posts you’ve made
Ah sarcasm just fuck off man
 

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