I have something to do which I am at a loss to prepare for.

Discussion in 'SMB' started by Scimmy, May 18, 2017.

  1. Harry Angstrom

    Harry Angstrom Striker

    Because as emotional as you want but try and laugh at the same time. It will be one of the most uplifting things you will do. (Probably)
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  2. wash

    wash Central Defender

    Take a four pack or more sit and chat have a drink.
    If he can't don't worry just be you.
    If you feel like blubbing like a baby do so.
    Don't worry about your reaction to seeing him like he is You are both in unchartered territory.
    The stiffupper lip thing is a farce just be yourself, take some old photos of the pair of you if you have any. Reminisce about the stupid things you got up to.
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  3. ajthemackem

    ajthemackem Striker

    You'll turn up and you won't even have to think about it. It'll all go naturally.
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  4. Kev75

    Kev75 Midfield

    Remember this is about him not you ................go and see your marra!!!!
  5. Bishop Boy

    Bishop Boy Winger

    Is the correct answer
  6. jackynutmeg

    jackynutmeg Winger

    Go and see him...have a bit crack on and a laugh ...it'll all come naturally.
    If you don't go you will regret it.
  7. Gaz

    Gaz Striker

    Just turn up and the rest will happen naturally.
  8. Tommasi

    Tommasi Striker

    I often don't see my mates for months/years on end and as soon as we're together it's like were 19 again ripping the piss out of each other and having a laugh. As other have said it'll be fine and if you don't you'll regret it.
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  9. yorkyexile

    yorkyexile Striker

    just keep nipping out "for a piss", bubble and gan back in. It`s a hard thing to do matey but a good un to do if you get what I mean. Best of luck with it
  10. Burt84

    Burt84 Goalkeeper

    Horrible situation fella. I am sure the words will come. I don't have many good mates but have two that we really go out of our ways to make sure we have regular meet ups.
  11. Fred Secrets

    Fred Secrets Striker

    Try to have a laugh & don't spend your final moments together sad. Easy for me to say, but have a bit of craic about the good times. & tell the fecker that he could have just said so if he didn't want to go for a pint with you. This is going a bit far. ;)
  12. Stubbs ftm

    Stubbs ftm Winger

    Take him for a pint if you can and just talk about footy, birds, family etc
  13. HerdnMulhall

    HerdnMulhall Central Defender

    Very difficult.
    I think if you can keep your 'stuff' under wraps the better for him. It can be very draining for someone who is very ill to be carer for someone who is well and has never had to really face their own mortality. That doesn't mean that you can't express your own emotion but I would say that there is a balance in expressing your grief and burdening him with it. You both know this is maybe the last time. Time for warmth and a bit of craic and a realisation that it will be best for both of you to make this as joyous an occasion as befits. After all you were great mates and he wants to see you before he goes. Oh and ignore the missus.
  14. Mantobar

    Mantobar Midfield

    Any old photos to take and chat about. Thats my only advice. Sorry
  15. mux

    mux Striker Contributor

    In that case I apologise Dom. I thought it was an attempt at a witty first reply. I've obviously been on this site too long :oops:
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  16. This imo. Act as nowt is wrong.
  17. dom

    dom Striker

    Don't worry about it, I was just totally at a loss to offer any advice.
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  18. Scimmy

    Scimmy Striker

    Dom, I knew that Marra. ;):)

    Sincere thanks for all the support everybody. I think I'm ready for this.

    There was never a chance that I wouldn't go and see my mate, just for clarity.
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  19. dom

    dom Striker

    Aw shucks! :oops::lol:
  20. HABA87

    HABA87 Winger

    Give him a hug mate. Other than that, just be yourself.
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