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Getting over a break up

Discussion in 'SMB' started by Lionel Hutzz, Apr 14, 2019.

  1. peil

    peil Striker Contributor

    yeah, she's a [​IMG]
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  2. CatRyan

    CatRyan Striker

    Gay for pay now?

    Things don't seem to have gone so well for you since your break up
  3. yyy

    yyy Striker

  4. Seaham Towny

    Seaham Towny Striker

    Your ex sounds like mine. Til you listed her occupation I actually thought it was.

    Can only tell you want helped me out mate, I joined a Sunday League side, failed at Tinder and had a fair bit to drink for a few months before I joined a gym and met my current lass.

    Trust me mate she sounds fucking hideous focus on yourself til you're ready to get back on the hoss.
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  5. yyy

    yyy Striker

    A sex-obsessed dangershag with minimal forepaly requirements who'd manipulate you into what she wanted?

    Add to that she's a mental health nurse (she did wear a uniform?) and you'll have half of this lot (ahem) into fantasy overdrive. :)

    Seriously, I refer back to my earlier remarks. I know someone with serious mental health issues and you really are better off out of it.
    Last edited: Apr 15, 2019
  6. twangmackem

    twangmackem Central Defender

    take care of yourself please pal firstly, and if you get over it please tell me how, 5 years on from my wife leaving me and my children I still struggle now, I'm lucky that I have SSAFA and my regimental associations to fall back on for help, but this depression shite is an absolute bastard
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  7. Rhubarb

    Rhubarb Goalkeeper

    Sertraline is a nightmare like. I’m only on 50mg and most I can manage is a semi on!!
  8. spoony

    spoony Striker

    Sounds like she is part of the problem mate. If she can't stand by you in times like this, at your lowest ebb, then it's best she is gone. Things will get better, they may get worse as well later on, but I've learned thar it's all a big cycle.

    You will be fine. Make a decision to do something and see it through. It could be a weekend camping on your own, or climbing a hill. Something thats achievable but you csn take pride in doing on your own. Get yourself out of your normal environment where you can concenrate on other things.

    Really sympathise with the Sertraline like. I took myself off it as it was making me not care about things I love in life. Whilst no longer a raging mess I was dead inside at times.

    It did'nt affect me like that. I just didnt care about things anymore which scared me.
    Last edited: Apr 15, 2019
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  9. wash

    wash Midfield

    I was on 150mg of dothiepin for depression, changed onto 20mg of Prozac 15 months ago as the dothiepin wasn't doing its job. Had been on it for many years.

    Benefits are I get better and longer lasting erections, oh and my depression is better controlled
  10. Themig

    Themig Winger

    I’m on sertraline as well. Didn’t realise that was a side effect tbh! Explains a lot
  11. Lionel Hutzz

    Lionel Hutzz Midfield

    Thanks for the advice everyone :cool:
    Had a much better week this week and only missing my lurcher now.
  12. Old Prestonian

    Old Prestonian Striker

    Woah. She's not taken custody of the dog! That's bang out of order.
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  13. the boot

    the boot Midfield

    Glad to hear that mate. I’m sure it happened to a lad on here. He stole it back iirc. Then showered with daily.
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  14. yorkyexile

    yorkyexile Striker

    are you @Cowvahlo in disguise
  15. Forrest Gump

    Forrest Gump Midfield

    Any update

  16. the boot

    the boot Midfield

    Wish I’d said that. I couldn’t think of him. I’m claiming some of your like mind.
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  17. Lionel Hutzz

    Lionel Hutzz Midfield

    Been a lot more positive thanks mate. Was working in a new area of the office with some of the younger staff which has been quite helpful lots of footy banter as opposed to whinging about kids and council tax. Also had a very nice 21 year old from work message me on social which made me feel a bit better about myself :oops::lol:
  18. Bishop Boy

    Bishop Boy Striker

    Pics FFS
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  19. Lionel Hutzz

    Lionel Hutzz Midfield

    She is from Bishop actually as well :lol:
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  20. Bishop Boy

    Bishop Boy Striker

    Doesn't help, I'm in Shields

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