Occam's Razor
Striker
Best thing was the way the defender dropped to the floor to make it look 50/50.She was away and had her shirt ragged and pulled down, clear foul and would have been red. There's no way the ref could see what was going on given she was 30 yards away on the wrong side. In situations like this then the "clear and obvious" part shouldn't matter at all, VAR should just say ref it was a foul given the ref can't make a fair decision.