bigmarlon
Winger
I did this when my Dad died and it was the first time I broke down in tears after his death. Going through his things was heartbreaking. The breaking point was when I found a red-handled teaspoon which I used to use as a bairn to eat cereal. God I f***ing loved that spoon, he must've had it for 25 years.
Apart from mementos all of his kitchenware, stereo, CD's etc was given to the nearest charity shop. I kept a few suitcases of his personal belongings like jewelry, false teeth, letters, photos etc, and the brand new 42" telly he'd bought the week before his death (which I gave to my sister), but everything else was given to charity.
It's a part of death. Keep the things that mean something to you and get rid of the rest. You can't carry around a house full of your Mam's stuff for the rest of your life.
Apart from mementos all of his kitchenware, stereo, CD's etc was given to the nearest charity shop. I kept a few suitcases of his personal belongings like jewelry, false teeth, letters, photos etc, and the brand new 42" telly he'd bought the week before his death (which I gave to my sister), but everything else was given to charity.
It's a part of death. Keep the things that mean something to you and get rid of the rest. You can't carry around a house full of your Mam's stuff for the rest of your life.