Depression

Discussion in 'Gold' started by magswonnowt, Jan 9, 2012.

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  1. I had it for years, probably due to my lifestyle. Ok now though touch wood.

    It transcended really physically, could barely get out of bed and had to have a drink just to leave the house. Bad crack.

    Tried counselling, only went a couple of times and didn't think it was working, though in the long term it probably did.
     
    Last edited: Jan 13, 2012
  2. Been to the docs today. Seemed like he listened, but now found I might have high blood pressure, so I have blood tests to look forward to. If I didnt have high blood pressure before, a week of thinking about a needle will certainly do the trick!

    I think once that's out the way, I'm to make an appointment again and potential see a "pyschiatric nurse" or something. Filled out some chart with 0-3 scores, was only in there ten minutes but it felt like a week.
     
  3. Shaw tarse

    Shaw tarse Winger

    Good luck Ross hope you get the assistance you seek
     
  4. MonkeyLove

    MonkeyLove Striker

    Unfortunately can't read through all this but was always amazed to learn that 1 in 3 people have had or will have serious mental health problems in their lives.

    Be that depression or similar serious is classed as needing long term clinical care. I.e. Regular trips to your doctor and medication/counselling.

    Scary when you look around a group of mates or even the pub and think that 33 % of those people will be on the verge of such seriousness that they have significant mental health issues
     
  5. cheers pal
     
  6. MonkeyLove

    MonkeyLove Striker

    Always find animals brilliant in that respect. They definitely have additional sense in terms of judging emotion and feelings. Can't hide anything from the little bastards
     
  7. Markus

    Markus Guest

    Always remember around 2 year ago, I had a particulary bad night and came on here told everyone (I was Magnifico) and you were one of the few ones who had pm'ed me and it was much appreciated! Hope you feel better soon mate.
     
  8. RedHouseMackem

    RedHouseMackem Midfield

    Thats easier said than done:neutral:
     
  9. joemcdokes

    joemcdokes Striker

    Off topic I know but years ago when at work someone said that 1 in 5 men are gay. (I doubt that is true as I doubt 1 in 3 people have had serious mental health problems as well).
    He said to this lad, 'Think of your 4 best mates, would you say any of them are gay', the lad said. 'No'.
    He said, 'It must be you then'. :lol:
     
  10. Only just found the time to thoroughly read this thread fully (was on my to-do list all week but just such a monster). I do indeed stutter and anyone who needs a chat about it is more than welcome to contact me. Sometimes just sharing a few experiences is all it takes to find some huge relief as you realise it is a lot more common than you think.
     
  11. Peegee

    Peegee Midfield

    For those who have asked about CBT, there's a 'cognitive behavioural therapy for dummies' audiobook available from iTunes for less than £7. Could be a good introduction into it and help people figure out whether they want to talk to their GP about getting them started on it. :)

    Edit: it's only £2.95. I've just started listening to it and it's really good. I'd recommend it to anyone intrigued by it.
     
    Last edited: Jan 15, 2012
  12. Or will do at some point in their lives - I think that is the thing that I have learned over the years, from both myself and others, that mental health is not a permanent state of health any more than your weight, your fitness, or any other kind of health.
     
  13. Peegee

    Peegee Midfield

  14. ilovestasia

    ilovestasia Guest

    I've suffered from depression and have had bouts of stress and anxiety over a period of 12 years now. This has been on and off and often caused by work and relationship issues but wasn't helped by drug taking and drinking when I was younger. I've been on anti-depressants twice now which did work but I prefer non drug resolution.

    My tips would be:

    Stay off alcohol or cut down on drinking - alcohol is a downer and won't help your state of mind;

    Exercise and be active - very hard if you don't even want to get out of bed - this raises serotonin levels and the fitter you are the better you are able to deal with stressful situations;

    Slow down if you need to - if you are feeling overwhelmed then push back on commitments and make time for yourself;

    Meditation and hypnosis - when you are relaxed you cannot worry. You need to replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts. Your mind is very powerful and hypnosis can be a fantastic experience. There are even some videos on youtube that work quite well for me;

    See a therapist or a councillor - confronting your issues and reaching out for help is a key step;

    Supportive friends and family can make all the difference;

    Seeing a path out to something better is the most important thing for me.

    All this is easier said than done of course. When people say "pull yourself together" as, indeed, my own mother said to me, it really doesn't help. However, at the same time, it does require bravery and determination to tackle it.
     
  15. MissRobinson

    MissRobinson Guest

    Brilliant post
     
  16. Titus

    Titus Striker

    I'm not ashamed to say that I often get quite stressed/depressed. I train for over 15hours a week and most of the training is great for stopping me feeling like shit.

    The problem is, whenever I stop and at some point I have to, I can feel very, very 'down' and stressed. Can go weeks/months without feeling like that, then I can go days/weeks feeling like it. Fucking horrible.
     
  17. mackemlegend

    mackemlegend Midfield

    I'm not pointing any fingers here (well I am a bit), but I think some posts on this thread illustrate the social problem of not accepting depression as a disease, which it is. It's not just feeling down, and once it takes hold its very hard to shake off, even if circumstances in that person's life improve. Views like these aren't just ignorant, they're dangerous:

     
    Last edited: Jan 15, 2012
  18. ilovestasia

    ilovestasia Guest

    Agreed.
     
  19. Titus

    Titus Striker

    Agree with this. Despite pretty big life changes, I still have the same problems.

    Think I'm going to do what I should of probably done a while ago and get myself along the doctors, see what they say.
     
  20. MissRobinson

    MissRobinson Guest

    Miss Robinson likes this a lot

    My mate has finally admitted the problem , the change in her is breathtaking - one life , make it count
     
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