Confronting bullies from the past



Dauntless Dive Bomber said:
UPDATE.

Got a message back from him late last night. He can't remember who I am, he thinks I might be the brother of one of his mates from school. I've had a good look at his profile (he's got everything on public show) and he's obviously a scratter with at least 3 kids all under ten. I've decided just to let it lie. Sorry it hasn't ended in the pagga most of you were hoping for and I look forward to the mass of "pussy" comments heading my way, but there's simply no way I can come out of this ahead. At least I've provided some entertainment if nothing else....
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Brutal.

He's had you yet again.
 
Dauntless Dive Bomber said:
Would you do it? I'm mid 40's and have recently discovered a horrible c*nt on Facebook who was in my year at school back in the 80's. He used to call me worse than shite and threaten me on a regular basis and back then I was too much of a soft cock to do anything about it. Fast forward 30 years and I stumble across his profile on FB. Very tempted to send him a message asking either for an apology or a straightener. Opinions?
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Inform him who you are and request a meet if he turns up ask him basically to go somewhere quiet and sort it out, one way or another you'll be rid of it forever, I did many years ago he wouldn't go so I banjoed him on the spot A passer by picked him
Up whilst I fucked off
 
Dauntless Dive Bomber said:
UPDATE.

Got a message back from him late last night. He can't remember who I am, he thinks I might be the brother of one of his mates from school. I've had a good look at his profile (he's got everything on public show) and he's obviously a scratter with at least 3 kids all under ten. I've decided just to let it lie. Sorry it hasn't ended in the pagga most of you were hoping for and I look forward to the mass of "pussy" comments heading my way, but there's simply no way I can come out of this ahead. At least I've provided some entertainment if nothing else....
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He’s claimed he doesn't remember you. You’ve sat and spent your own time examining his Facebook profile. You’re giving him shit for having 3 kids under 10.

When you read that back do you feel any better for contacting him?
 
Dauntless Dive Bomber said:
UPDATE.

Got a message back from him late last night. He can't remember who I am, he thinks I might be the brother of one of his mates from school. I've had a good look at his profile (he's got everything on public show) and he's obviously a scratter with at least 3 kids all under ten. I've decided just to let it lie. Sorry it hasn't ended in the pagga most of you were hoping for and I look forward to the mass of "pussy" comments heading my way, but there's simply no way I can come out of this ahead. At least I've provided some entertainment if nothing else....
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sounds like an episode of dead mans shoes.
 
luvulongtime said:
me cousin waited 25 years to get even with the lad who'd made his life misery at school, feeling tough one night he went round his house and the bullies 2 sons kicked his head in
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:lol:

Charmless Man said:
How have you not let it go by now? Might be better to do that.

Then again I wasn’t ever bullied so no idea if it’s the sort of thing you’d cling on to.
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Makes sense, bullies are usually jealous of summat.

monkeytassle said:
I was bullied by Matthew Thomas. It lasted a week before I smashed the fucker all over with a chair. That's the appropriate way to deal with bullies. Not to ask for an explanation 20y after the occasion.
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How did you transition from standing on it for altitudinal purposes to applying it to his astonished visage? It must have been like House of Flying Daggers.
 
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Baloo said:
He’s claimed he doesn't remember you. You’ve sat and spent your own time examining his Facebook profile. You’re giving him shit for having 3 kids under 10.

When you read that back do you feel any better for contacting him?
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Think he's all wind and piss mate.Never knew it was problem to have three kids under ten.
 

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