Break up of a relationship/marriage



Cow said:
😂😂Brothers in arms and all that shit eh?
Thing is, when you tell people about it it sounds petty as fuck, I couldn’t work out how to express the utter shitness she caused which is why I went to see a therapist specialising in these disorders. Was yours a pure narcissist? Mine was a covert one, dangerous as fuck, the ultimate stealth weapon, butter wouldn’t melt but behind closed doors the slyness and deceit was unreal

😂😂😂
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Covert as fuck, had my family believing I was the problem, the lot. Pleased we can laugh about it now like.
 
WHO WAS PHONE said:
Covert as fuck, had my family believing I was the problem, the lot. Pleased we can laugh about it now like.
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Oh yes, I know all about that one, did you get to the point where you started to think she was right as well? Was it a clean break? It took about 6-8 months to end it with mine, had to get the police involved in the end, there was nothing they could do about the narcissistic behaviour but could do her for harassment. It’s unreal how something that appeared to be so good could turn out to be such a lie and come to the point where I had to get the police involved
 
Cow said:
Oh yes, I know all about that one, did you get to the point where you started to think she was right as well? Was it a clean break? It took about 6-8 months to end it with mine, had to get the police involved in the end, there was nothing they could do about the narcissistic behaviour but could do her for harassment. It’s unreal how something that appeared to be so good could turn out to be such a lie and come to the point where I had to get the police involved
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We did try and warn you Cow! The signs were there from the outset.
 
Goat Eyes said:
We did try and warn you Cow! The signs were there from the outset.
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You did mate, and of course I wished I listened but it’s f***ing hard in these situations, it’s like you’re brainwashed of all sensibilities. But...it’s because of you lot that I got through it and I’d offer that advice to @rocky, use your mates, talk to them, go out with them, mates are invaluable at a time like this.
 
Cow said:
You did mate, and of course I wished I listened but it’s f***ing hard in these situations, it’s like you’re brainwashed of all sensibilities. But...it’s because of you lot that I got through it and I’d offer that advice to @rocky, use your mates, talk to them, go out with them, mates are invaluable at a time like this.
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Good to have you back. Bigger and better than before too.
 
I imagine it's worse if it's one basically binning the other. If both think it's actually the right thing to do then I imagine it'd be a bit easier to come to terms with. And means no bitterness, which is better if children are involved.
Haway Rocky lad. Get back in the ring.
 
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dangermows said:
I imagine it's worse if it's one basically binning the other. If both think it's actually the right thing to do then I imagine it'd be a bit easier to come to terms with. And means no bitterness, which is better if children are involved.
Haway Rocky lad. Get back in the ring.
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Is that why they split up?
 
Cow said:
Oh yes, I know all about that one, did you get to the point where you started to think she was right as well? Was it a clean break? It took about 6-8 months to end it with mine, had to get the police involved in the end, there was nothing they could do about the narcissistic behaviour but could do her for harassment. It’s unreal how something that appeared to be so good could turn out to be such a lie and come to the point where I had to get the police involved
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Any examples of things that happened mate? Not the police stuff but more day to day things when you were together.
 

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