There's an argument that men can only engage one of their two main organs at any given time.....its either the penis or the brain. I engaged the penis prior to the break up then spent six months analysing it all with the brain. I was single for ten years after so more than compensated. For me personally I had to learn the lessons before I could move on.Don't understand this at all to be honest. It's the only benefit of getting chucked.
Brothers in arms and all that shit eh?This sounds horrible but it's nice seeing that it's happened to other people . For a long time I hated myself for not realising and letting it happen but I've learned to accept that it wasn't my fault. I'd like to think it doesn't bother me now, but I still get a sicky feeling when I see a car that might be hers.