Break up of a relationship/marriage



With it coming up to Christmas,all the feelings you have are are going to be magnified-even though it's a difficult enough thing to go through anyway,regardless of the time of year.
Think of it like this: over 50% of the population get divorced,and an even higher percentage go through a relationship break up or loss of a partner at some point in their life at a relatively young age.
Time is the only healer,and everyone's different in quite how much time that takes;things do get better though,and sometimes something good comes from something bad,even though at this moment in time that seems a long way off.

Chin up and wish you well.
 
Sorry to hear that mate. I hope both of you can be happier going forwards. If there are kids involved make every effort never to argue in front of them. A mother and father can still be fantastic parents even if they are no longer partners. The pain comes in waves, peaks and troughs, but it definitely gets easier with time, promise.
 
rocky said:
Fuck me it's hard. Coming up to 3 weeks and its still raw even though I know it's for the best.
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Sorry to hear this. Three weeks is nowt so unfortunately you've got a long way to go yet.
It's a cliche but people say it for a reason as it really is true that "time is a healer". Just keep plodding on mate, it gets easier and eventually you'll get there.
 
I found my break up really hard and still do sometimes. Split up in Feb last year and I was at my parents right up until Nov 1st this year when I moved into my flat. Still not totally over the marriage but I've accepted it's over and I'm single. It's nice having your own space and it's even better having my son for 4 nights but at times it can be lonely. Good luck Rocky, I know you have at least 1 son so be there for him / them. Things get better.
 
Slow joe said:
I found my break up really hard and still do sometimes. Split up in Feb last year and I was at my parents right up until Nov 1st this year when I moved into my flat. Still not totally over the marriage but I've accepted it's over and I'm single. It's nice having your own space and it's even better having my son for 4 nights but at times it can be lonely. Good luck Rocky, I know you have at least 1 son so be there for him / them. Things get better.
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Good stuff with the kip fella, start of an upward curve hopefully mate
 
Lambchops said:
Good stuff with the kip fella, start of an upward curve hopefully mate
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Aye it's nice being out my parents house and having my own space back. I don't have my son on a mon, Tues or wed night so this is the first. It's really hard staying off the drink the first night but I'm not on it as of yet so hopefully I'll make it through the night !
 

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