Getting over a break up



Lionel Hutzz said:
Split up with my long term partner a few weeks back now and have been really struggling since. Last November was the climax of about 5 years of depression relating to childhood trauma and took the plunge and went to docs and was provided with 200mg of sertraline which has been very effective in improving my mood. Unfortunately the side effect of the sertraline was a decrease in libido which partner was not happy about. She wanted me to stop the sertraline as it was having a negative effect on her which I thought was not very understanding but let it go.
Then 3 weeks ago I was very tired from work and rejected her advances, she then went crying to her mums and ever since I've had a barrage of abuse from her family and friends.

Don't really know what to do now as have been sat in the house for weeks other than the gym and work.

Other than the usual "inbox me hun" or "bucking another wad" has anyone been in a similar position that can offer any advice?
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Is she on Facebook?

Forrest Gump said:
You and my wife sound perfect for each other ;)
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Hi
 
Lionel Hutzz said:
Haha she's crazy you don't want that and believe me I've been forced over that 6 months a few times lucky for blue pills haha.

Think the most hurtful thing was that she said was basically she was with me for looks and cause I was nice to her but "couldn't see point " if we aren't having sex constantly
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You are better off without her, usually crazy people only think of themselves first.
Hope you get yourself sorted mate and move on to happier times and find someone who will love you as much as they want to be loved.

Btw, need any poems to pull a bird, feel free to ask me to knock a few up that you can pass off as your own.
 
Give her a bit of time and imo if she’s going on like that if she’s any kind of person she’ll come back to you.

Hope you’re ok marra- get yourself sorted first though
 
Titus said:
200mg? Was this the first visit?

I know it will be difficult, but if the OP is even close to the entirety of the situation, then at least for the time being you don't need that in your life whilst dealing with depression.

However, if you know there's other factors contributing to her/her family's behaviour, then do try and at least to be honest with yourself to identify them in your own head and work from there. You won't have depression forever, but it's a horrible illness that can make you make terrible decisions so as only you can do, try to evaluate the relationship as a whole before just washing your hands and allowing her to piss off.

Best of luck mate. Shite situation.
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I was visiting weekly and was upped to that started on 50mg
 
Lionel Hutzz said:
Split up with my long term partner a few weeks back now and have been really struggling since. Last November was the climax of about 5 years of depression relating to childhood trauma and took the plunge and went to docs and was provided with 200mg of sertraline which has been very effective in improving my mood. Unfortunately the side effect of the sertraline was a decrease in libido which partner was not happy about. She wanted me to stop the sertraline as it was having a negative effect on her which I thought was not very understanding but let it go.
Then 3 weeks ago I was very tired from work and rejected her advances, she then went crying to her mums and ever since I've had a barrage of abuse from her family and friends.

Don't really know what to do now as have been sat in the house for weeks other than the gym and work.

Other than the usual "inbox me hun" or "bucking another wad" has anyone been in a similar position that can offer any advice?
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You said it all yourself, basically. She sounds a bit immature/selfish. You need to concentrate on yourself now - no good being with someone who isn't supportive or understanding, absolutely no point.
 
tunstall birdman said:
feel free to ask me to knock a few up that you can pass off as your own.
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Fertile?

Lionel Hutzz said:
Split up with my long term partner a few weeks back now and have been really struggling since. Last November was the climax of about 5 years of depression relating to childhood trauma and took the plunge and went to docs and was provided with 200mg of sertraline which has been very effective in improving my mood. Unfortunately the side effect of the sertraline was a decrease in libido which partner was not happy about. She wanted me to stop the sertraline as it was having a negative effect on her which I thought was not very understanding but let it go.
Then 3 weeks ago I was very tired from work and rejected her advances, she then went crying to her mums and ever since I've had a barrage of abuse from her family and friends.

Don't really know what to do now as have been sat in the house for weeks other than the gym and work.

Other than the usual "inbox me hun" or "bucking another wad" has anyone been in a similar position that can offer any advice?
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All the single lasses are after you now. A husband who doesn't need sex appears to be an attractive proposition...
 
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Tex said:
Just saw this post.

Is this true?

Anyone who denies the holocaust can fuck right off and deserve no sympathy.
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lurker said:
Yes, got a ban for it iirc
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This relates to a very stupid comment I made a few years ago in which I questioned the numbers who had died after watching in hindsight a very biased documentary. I have since apologised and deeply regret saying it.
 
tunstall birdman said:
You are better off without her, usually crazy people only think of themselves first.
Hope you get yourself sorted mate and move on to happier times and find someone who will love you as much as they want to be loved.

Btw, need any poems to pull a bird, feel free to ask me to knock a few up that you can pass off as your own.
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Can I have one of those poems mate? :lol:
 
Lionel Hutzz said:
Split up with my long term partner a few weeks back now and have been really struggling since. Last November was the climax of about 5 years of depression relating to childhood trauma and took the plunge and went to docs and was provided with 200mg of sertraline which has been very effective in improving my mood. Unfortunately the side effect of the sertraline was a decrease in libido which partner was not happy about. She wanted me to stop the sertraline as it was having a negative effect on her which I thought was not very understanding but let it go.
Then 3 weeks ago I was very tired from work and rejected her advances, she then went crying to her mums and ever since I've had a barrage of abuse from her family and friends.

Don't really know what to do now as have been sat in the house for weeks other than the gym and work.

Other than the usual "inbox me hun" or "bucking another wad" has anyone been in a similar position that can offer any advice?
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Are you wanting to get back with her or not? Can't really tell from your post.

Stick with the pills whatever you do mate if they are working, your health is more important than anything
 

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