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He’s a Sunderland supporter marra.
Then he should drink like a f***ing fish and never stop
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He’s a Sunderland supporter marra.
No need to apologise I’m just glad that someone replied to one of my threads!Also, sorry mate, I didn't mean to hijack your thread. I'm done talking about myself now, so please feel free to go back to what you were discussing before I so rudely interrupted.
He’s a Sunderland supporter marra.
Yes I have narrowed the issues down to work mainly and I already exercise regularly. I have started yoga too, and I’ve practiced at mediation about 10 years ago, for a period of time my mind was bulletproof so I’ll have to start it again.While alcohol will mask the stress and anxiety while you're drinking, they will actually contribute to you feeling more stress and anxiety so it becomes counter productive.
I think your best course of action would be for you to figure out what is causing you stress and anxiety and find healthy alternatives to relieve them. Exercising and meditation can typically help with regular levels of stress and anxiety. If they are to the point that they are incapacitating you, though, then I would recommend getting professional help.
Could be, but I wouldn't necessarily go back to a more rigorous drinking. You seem to have achieved some positive results from cutting back, so I would stick with it. I would definitely get back to meditating as that will really help. Yoga is also great.No need to apologise I’m just glad that someone replied to one of my threads!
Yes I have narrowed the issues down to work mainly and I already exercise regularly. I have started yoga too, and I’ve practiced at mediation about 10 years ago, for a period of time my mind was bulletproof so I’ll have to start it again.
I was just wondering if my latest mid life crisis was heightened due to abstention.
Dunno mate. I was off the booze for ages and never really felt stressed but a few months down the line I did get anxiety again and started drinking heavily again. Just makes it worse tbh. Appreciate this doesn’t help at all.I’ve never been a MASSIVE drinker of alcoholic beverages but over the past 2 months I’ve consumed a lot less than normal, probably about 3 pints in total.
Over the Summer we were drinking vodka and mixers most weekends, I would sometimes have a few drinks during the week.
My evergy levels are higher and I’m thinking with more clarity - BUT this is a bit of a drawback and I feel that being slightly inebriated and having alcohol in my blood stream may have been masking problems with stress and anxiety.
Is this possible even for low levels of ‘addiction’? Or should I go back to a manageable drinking plan????
Ta, I recognised that I had problems when I walked into walk from a public car park and I felt like starting fights with cyclists on the pavement, inconsiderate drivers etc. and then by 3pm each day at work I want to reply to each email with a big fat FUC£ OF£.Could be, but I wouldn't necessarily go back to a more rigorous drinking. You seem to have achieved some positive results from cutting back, so I would stick with it. I would definitely get back to meditating as that will really help. Yoga is also great.
Sounds to me like you're on the right path, I would just keep doing what you're doing and be patient.
Thats normal for me !!!!!Ta, I recognised that I had problems when I walked into walk from a public car park and I felt like starting fights with cyclists on the pavement, inconsiderate drivers etc. and then by 3pm each day at work I want to reply to each email with a big fat FUC£ OF£.
So according to your post uphread you “get pissed all the time” but because it’s on beer not spirits then you’re “definitely not an alcoholic”?I dont drink strong alc like spirits ever so that means I'm definately not an alcoholic, I do drink every night though.
Like I said in reply #37 I was being sarcastic.So according to your post uphread you “get pissed all the time” but because it’s on beer not spirits then you’re “definitely not an alcoholic”?
Aye reeto.
and then wake up 2 hours later desperate for a piss
If you have been normally a level headed person and have just started feeling like this, defiantly a underlying problem mate, you have posted that your not, i think a massive drinker soTa, I recognised that I had problems when I walked into walk from a public car park and I felt like starting fights with cyclists on the pavement, inconsiderate drivers etc. and then by 3pm each day at work I want to reply to each email with a big fat FUC£ OF£.
Takes a while for your body to sort itself out. But it does adjust. I would go clean for a month. You'll feel like you've reset everything.I’ve never been a MASSIVE drinker of alcoholic beverages but over the past 2 months I’ve consumed a lot less than normal, probably about 3 pints in total.
Over the Summer we were drinking vodka and mixers most weekends, I would sometimes have a few drinks during the week.
My evergy levels are higher and I’m thinking with more clarity - BUT this is a bit of a drawback and I feel that being slightly inebriated and having alcohol in my blood stream may have been masking problems with stress and anxiety.
Is this possible even for low levels of ‘addiction’? Or should I go back to a manageable drinking plan????
Was going to abstain tonight, but this thread has made me want a bottle and a half of red wine now.
I have spoken with my line manager a few times but I went to the GP yesterday, which was interesting. I have a few things I can try but it’s deffo based on being frustrated about a few things at work.If you have been normally a level headed person and have just started feeling like this, defiantly a underlying problem mate, you have posted that your not, i think a massive drinker so
I wouldn’t think thats the problem but each person is different. Have you thought about speaking to your doctor or other health professional? A lot of experts on here as you know !!
I feel your pain marra the best thing to do is surround yourself with upbeat positive people and see how they handle things and take note. Life is too short to get angry at things that you have no control over.I have spoken with my line manager a few times but I went to the GP yesterday, which was interesting. I have a few things I can try but it’s deffo based on being frustrated about a few things at work.
I have spoken with my line manager a few times but I went to the GP yesterday, which was interesting. I have a few things I can try but it’s deffo based on being frustrated about a few things at work.
Erm yes that’s why I always make time to read the match day threads!I feel your pain marra the best thing to do is surround yourself with upbeat positive people and see how they handle things and take note. Life is too short to get angry at things that you have no control over.
He advised that I self certify myself for a week off work ... it has helped so far but I am under pressure to help around the house now!For what my opinion is worth I don’t think going without the drink is the root cause. Though having a couple of pints might help you chill or give you something to look forward to on a weekend I think the lack of booze would have affected you a lot quicker if you had ‘a problem’ if you get my drift.
Did the Doc mention something called a Worry Tree? You can google it and download one to print off but they can help in separating things you have control over and therefore can do something about and things you don’t which you should try and put to one side.
While alcohol will mask the stress and anxiety while you're drinking, they will actually contribute to you feeling more stress and anxiety so it becomes counter productive.
I think your best course of action would be for you to figure out what is causing you stress and anxiety and find healthy alternatives to relieve them. Exercising and meditation can typically help with regular levels of stress and anxiety. If they are to the point that they are incapacitating you, though, then I would recommend getting professional help.