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Is a shit time of year like, especially when you're single and near enough hopeless like me!

Here's to 2015, hopefully be a much better year. (said that last year so not holding much hope)
 

Live In Hope said:
Horrible time of year!

I split up with my girlfriend today and its shit, not just losing her and all our plans but also she had a 3 year old boy who I loved as my own, will never see him again now.

Makes my job worries etc mean nowt in grand scheme of things.
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Thats shit matey.But its a new year tomorrow. sounds cliched but it really is a good time to look foreward.

Hoy @look out piano give yersel a shake and look at what you can give your son now. No one looks foreward to going back to work but look at how hard youve worked to get the job.Theres time enough to worry about your health and the future if it happens

ChrisAshley said:
Is a shit time of year like, especially when you're single and near enough hopeless like me!

Here's to 2015, hopefully be a much better year. (said that last year so not holding much hope)
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And divvent you start either!!! Its new years eve man get yerself out and get yerself a dose:lol:
 
For the first time in my life I'm feeling low as low. My Mam's marriage to my step dad has ended (not going into details, that's not for here). I've spent Christmas with her as its the first time she's lived alone since I was born but I'm not there for New Year (although going back tomorrow). I just feel so guilty about leaving her on her own and like I'm a crap son. I'm wracked with worry about her as well. Knowing she's going through a period of unhappiness is killing me.
 
im not going to pretend that i understand nor do i wish to sound trite but i hope all you guys suffering find some solace (be it meds or therapy led) and all the support you need in the new year
 
yorkyexile said:
Thats shit matey.But its a new year tomorrow. sounds cliched but it really is a good time to look foreward.

Hoy @look out piano give yersel a shake and look at what you can give your son now. No one looks foreward to going back to work but look at how hard youve worked to get the job.Theres time enough to worry about your health and the future if it happens


And divvent you start either!!! Its new years eve man get yerself out and get yerself a dose:lol:
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I've been out. Now I've had a drink I'm in the house and I'll be feeling sorry for myself!
 
Sense of impending doom with Jan 2nd lurking like. Lets all talk shite on here like the above says and it'll seem better
 
Charmless Man said:
For the first time in my life I'm feeling low as low. My Mam's marriage to my step dad has ended (not going into details, that's not for here). I've spent Christmas with her as its the first time she's lived alone since I was born but I'm not there for New Year (although going back tomorrow). I just feel so guilty about leaving her on her own and like I'm a crap son. I'm wracked with worry about her as well. Knowing she's going through a period of unhappiness is killing me.
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Sorry to hear that Charming. You obviously love your Mam and she'll know it but you can't live other peoples lives for them, even our parents.
 
Live In Hope said:
Horrible time of year!

I split up with my girlfriend today and its shit, not just losing her and all our plans but also she had a 3 year old boy who I loved as my own, will never see him again now.

Makes my job worries etc mean nowt in grand scheme of things.
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f***ing hell mate that's shitty. Been through that once and best I can offer is it'll get better. Not much consolation in the short term though. :-( bugger. Chin up pal. Big life for you ahead.
 
zwartekat said:
Sorry to hear that Charming. You obviously love your Mam and she'll know it but you can't live other peoples lives for them, even our parents.
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She sent me on my way saying its been lovely having you round but you're young and need to have fun. She's either putting on a brave face or she wanted rid of me :lol:

She'll be fine, she's a stronger person than me. And like I say, I'll be round there tomorrow to pick my car up before driving back to Norwich.
 
Charmless Man said:
She sent me on my way saying its been lovely having you round but you're young and need to have fun. She's either putting on a brave face or she wanted rid of me :lol:

She'll be fine, she's a stronger person than me. And like I say, I'll be round there tomorrow to pick my car up before driving back to Norwich.
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Good man, that's all you can do.
 
Charmless Man said:
For the first time in my life I'm feeling low as low. My Mam's marriage to my step dad has ended (not going into details, that's not for here). I've spent Christmas with her as its the first time she's lived alone since I was born but I'm not there for New Year (although going back tomorrow). I just feel so guilty about leaving her on her own and like I'm a crap son. I'm wracked with worry about her as well. Knowing she's going through a period of unhappiness is killing me.
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Aye mines not well at all and I feel pretty bad being down here and leaving dad to look after her.

Life's tough mate. Sounds like you're a good bloke and I'm sure she knows.
 
monkeytassle said:
Aye mines not well at all and I feel pretty bad being down here and leaving dad to look after her.

Life's tough mate. Sounds like you're a good bloke and I'm sure she knows.
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I'm glad she has no health issues. She was young when I was born and is still in her 40s so that's years away, I hope. I dread that if I'm being honest.

The saving grace in this situation is she lives less than 2hrs drive away from Norwich.
 
monkeytassle said:
f***ing hell mate that's shitty. Been through that once and best I can offer is it'll get better. Not much consolation in the short term though. :-( bugger. Chin up pal. Big life for you ahead.
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Cheers mate. I know everything will be fine in the end. As hard as it is at this time of year, I am going to get my head down starting tomorrow by being at gym for 10am.
 
Charmless Man said:
I'm glad she has no health issues. She was young when I was born and is still in her 40s so that's years away, I hope. I dread that if I'm being honest.

The saving grace in this situation is she lives less than 2hrs drive away from Norwich.
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Mate nowt to beat yourself up over. Clearly you're a top chap and I'm sure she knows.

Live In Hope said:
Cheers mate. I know everything will be fine in the end. As hard as it is at this time of year, I am going to get my head down starting tomorrow by being at gym for 10am.
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Roll with the punches as they say. f***ing hard though. Best wishes for next year. If it makes you feel better I won't be matching you by gymming at 10am. Going for my can record tonight
 
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