Gary Speed

[Empire]

I've been exactly the same today mate.
I think the way people who knew him have reacted has made it harder to understand, such emotion and genuine grief from everyone from pro footballers to managers to tv personalities.
I also think the way this message board has reacted over an ex Newcastle player has been fantastic, I don't go on any other boards so I can't comment on them, but most on here are a credit to your club and football in general.
Every time I think about it I get a sickly feeling in my stomach, I didn't know him but I had met him a few times during his NUFC days and he always came across as a top bloke
RIP Speedo :-(

Speedo is one player I genuinely couldn't dislike. He was a Newcastle player and at the time I felt bad for even thinking about "liking" a newcastle player but he was a class above most saturday afternoons. Upon hearing this news yesterday, I didn't even feel like talking most of the day and became quite stroppy when folk attempted to talk to me. My fatha even came out with "what on Earth's wrong with you?!" when I became stroppy during the Rangers game on sky. I missed all but the last 20 minutes as I couldn't bring myself to get excited, frustrated, annoyed over a meaningless game of football. Devastated and to be honest I still am.

 

[Beer_Monkey]

Those pieces in The Mail and on the Guardian blog.......Lump in throat stuff.

That article from The Mail, along with several other interviews I've watched and pieces I've read, had me in tears.

It's ridiculous - I don't know this bloke from Adam. Never met him in my life. Yet reading the massive outpouring of genuine grief along with all the kind words and anecdotes has really got to me.

I don't know whether it's because I'm working away from home or what but I just want to give my best mate and my dad a massive hug. I know that my mam, sister and girlfriend would all tell me if something was eating them up. Couldn't say the same about my best mate and dad.

 

[abbs]

Those pieces in The Mail and on the Guardian blog.......Lump in throat stuff.

That article from The Mail, along with several other interviews I've watched and pieces I've read, had me in tears.

It's ridiculous - I don't know this bloke from Adam. Never met him in my life. Yet reading the massive outpouring of genuine grief along with all the kind words and anecdotes has really got to me.

I don't know whether it's because I'm working away from home or what but I just want to give my best mate and my dad a massive hug. I know that my mam, sister and girlfriend would all tell me if something was eating them up. Couldn't say the same about my best mate and dad.

prob is mate!
im the same, i take things for granted and when im away for a few days i miss everyone and want to come home! no shame in that fella!

 

[mackembhoy]

Speedo is one player I genuinely couldn't dislike. He was a Newcastle player and at the time I felt bad for even thinking about "liking" a newcastle player but he was a class above most saturday afternoons. Upon hearing this news yesterday, I didn't even feel like talking most of the day and became quite stroppy when folk attempted to talk to me. My fatha even came out with "what on Earth's wrong with you?!" when I became stroppy during the Rangers game on sky. I missed all but the last 20 minutes as I couldn't bring myself to get excited, frustrated, annoyed over a meaningless game of football. Devastated and to be honest I still am.

Same marra im still canny sad like

 

[lordy]

Didnt know much about the fella as a player, manager or as a bloke but he's obviously very very well liked and respected in the game, its just so puzzling what has happened - RIP Gary Speed.

 

[Empire]

Massive, massive loss to the world of football. Not only a top bloke, but a top, top player who was vastly underrated by many; one of the best box-to-box centre mids the Premiership has seen. He was absolutely pivotal to our successful period under Sir Bobby, it's well known that Bobby absolutely adored him. He was also an outstanding leader, many of the younger players who played with him have commented how they always knew they could talk to him about anything and that they looked up to him and the example he set, as well as a model pro, very rarely missed a game and you always expected to see number 11 on the team sheet. It speaks volumes that tributes are pouring in from all over and that fans of every club he graced class him as one of their own. A true great, RIP Gary. :-(



Aye, one or two have reared their ugly heads looking for bites with distasteful comments/threads, but they've been a small minority and on the whole it's been massively respectful. Fair play.

Not by me. The bloke was a class above every weekend. From the Leeds' title winning side (alongside Strachan, McAllister and Batty) of '93 to becoming pivotal in Sir Bobby Robson's Newcastle team over a decade later.

 

[TopCat]

Still really struggling to come to terms with this, it just doesn't make sense - was he really so ill that he was able to hide it from everyone? It seems as though everyone in Speed's life is shocked by this and no-one can offer any sort of explanation.....

So sad, so tragic and so baffling.

 

[Deleted member 555]

Still really struggling to come to terms with this, it just doesn't make sense - was he really so ill that he was able to hide it from everyone? It seems as though everyone in Speed's life is shocked by this and no-one can offer any sort of explanation.....

So sad, so tragic and so baffling.

Sat for a day mulling this over.....Why? The whole world as we knew, "football" wise, are lost with no words!


RIP GARY SPEED!

 

[Pancho]

He used the 'stop the clocks' line on Twitter yesterday. He's an excellent writer when tackling a serious subject.

As is Richard Williams. This is a smashing and typically understated piece of writing.

One by one they came forward, to the microphone or on the mobile, speaking from their homes or on the way to a game, to talk about Gary Speed. Voices stiffened with shock, with astonishment, with disbelief.
Voices of football men.

Men who had played with him, men who had played for him. Men with nothing but good to say about a player whose career had yielded great honour and engendered enormous affection, disrupted by what seem now, in the light of the reports on Sunday that Speed had killed himself, to be only the most insignificant of disappointments. Men who, like the rest of the football nation, had listened to him on Saturday lunchtime, chatting away on Football Focus with Gary McAllister, his old Leeds United team‑mate, seemingly happy enough with life, work and the world.

The most resonant of all the tributes came from Howard Wilkinson, his former Leeds manager, who had put him in United's first team as a 19-year-old. "He had a life of success to look forward to," Wilkinson told Radio 5 Live, his voice hollowed by grief and incomprehension.

It was not just fellow professionals in the game who emerged to pay their tributes. There was real sorrow in the words of the young women who used social media to testify how, as girls, they had fixed his poster to their bedroom walls. For he was as attractive a footballer, in every sense, as the modern English game has produced, as well as one of the most effective and admirable.

There will be no disputing that Gary Speed was a football man par excellence. A 22-year career in the professional game, with five of England's most historic clubs. Almost 700 appearances – 535 of them in the Premier League – for Leeds, Everton, Newcastle United, Bolton Wanderers, then Sheffield United in the Championship, at each of which he earned respect and reverence. Eighty‑five caps for Wales, usually toiling against the odds. A league championship winner's medal. Two FA Cup finals. A decision to retire last year, at 40. An MBE for services to football, followed by the manager's job at Sheffield United and then with Wales.

In the old days he would have been called a left-half. In the modern world he was a midfield player able to cover a variety of functions, with a particular gift for turning up, like a Welsh Martin Peters, in space and unannounced to finish a move with a decisive shot or a header that seemed almost excessively powerful for one of his slender build.

Perhaps that Leeds midfield of 1991‑92, the all-British one – two Scots, an Englishman and a Welshman – that powered the team that won the First Division championship in the last year before the Premier League, is the unit with which he will be most vividly identified: the tricky wing play of Gordon Strachan, the football radar of McAllister, the brusque ball‑winning of David Batty and the all‑round dynamism of the young Speed, for whom the league title came at the age of 22. They were reunited last week at a 20th anniversary dinner.

Any speculation on the cause of Speed's death on Sunday morning seemed intrusive. Acquaintances spoke of his wife, Louise, and their two young sons. Michael Owen, a near neighbour and a former Merseyside rival, tweeted: "We waved at each other the other day dropping our kids off at school." Here, it seemed, was proof absolute that anyone's public face, no matter how famous or how obscure, is merely the tip of their real life. The rest of the iceberg remains unknown to the outside world.

The unspoken thought was this: it can't have been about football. Speed's entire record formed a testament to his natural aptitude for the game on the one hand and to his professionalism on the other, the latter evidenced in a dedication that made him, at one time, the first player to have scored goals in every season since the formation of the Premier League, and the holder of the record for the number of appearances in the competition (both marks later surpassed, both by Ryan Giggs and the latter by David James). His career as a manager held out the entirely reasonable hope of similar distinction.

When he accepted the Welsh FA's offer to take over from John Toshack last year, urged on by his compatriots Mark Hughes and Robbie Savage, the team were in a terrible state. In the course of 10 months he lifted them from their lowest Fifa ranking of 117th back into the top 50, with wins in four of their last five matches.

Their most recent success, earlier this month, was a resoundingly confident 4-1 defeat of Norway in Cardiff, the opening goals coming from Gareth Bale and Craig Bellamy, players who seemed to symbolise Speed's success in blending the promise of youth with the best of the experienced players available to him. Building on a core of young players who had worked together in Brian Flynn's excellent Under-21 sides, he had laid the foundation for a future in which a team steered by Arsenal's Aaron Ramsey – whom he made captain at 20 – could look forward to the coming 2014 World Cup qualifying games with a more justified optimism than any Wales team had dared to adopt for decades.

He was also that rare thing in modern sport, a man of principle. He left one of his clubs after having been required to give a half-time talk, as captain, in place of his manager, whom drink had rendered temporarily incapable of speech. The fans of the club in question were mystified by his departure, but he had signed a confidentiality agreement and never spoke of the incident.

He was a boyhood Everton fan and on Sunday, a mile away from the ground at which he had been revered, Anfield joined in the remembrance. It was there that he scored perhaps the most memorable of his goals: a late equaliser, headed in beneath the eyes of the Kop. On Sunday they, like the rest of football, bowed their heads in silent sadness

 

[Weasel501]

Been as shocked as anyone by this once met the guy when out shopping genuinely nice bloke RIP mate -

 

[obrienobrien]

prob is mate!
im the same, i take things for granted and when im away for a few days i miss everyone and want to come home! no shame in that fella!

definitely not ( same boat..work away thru the week)

 

[SuperKev]

I've been exactly the same today mate.
I think the way people who knew him have reacted has made it harder to understand, such emotion and genuine grief from everyone from pro footballers to managers to tv personalities.
I also think the way this message board has reacted over an ex Newcastle player has been fantastic, I don't go on any other boards so I can't comment on them, but most on here are a credit to your club and football in general.
Every time I think about it I get a sickly feeling in my stomach, I didn't know him but I had met him a few times during his NUFC days and he always came across as a top bloke
RIP Speedo :-(

For me it highlights how Speed was regarded as a person and a player - i've been trying to think of other players who have played for both Newcastle and Leeds and I'm not sure I can come with anyone other Bridges (and even then I'm not sure) who would get such universal positive comments.

I'd also echo the shocked and stunned feeling.

 

[not spavin]

Been as shocked as anyone by this once met the guy when out shopping genuinely nice bloke RIP mate - I find what Joey Barton said on twitter about his death (whether he thinks it or not) just a total disgrace.

What Barton said was a bit clumsy, but the fact that he still won't say "Sorry for any misunderstanding" and instead in intent on playing the victim tells you all you need to know about him.

 

[SuperKev]

Massive, massive loss to the world of football. Not only a top bloke, but a top, top player who was vastly underrated by many; one of the best box-to-box centre mids the Premiership has seen. He was absolutely pivotal to our successful period under Sir Bobby, it's well known that Bobby absolutely adored him. He was also an outstanding leader, many of the younger players who played with him have commented how they always knew they could talk to him about anything and that they looked up to him and the example he set, as well as a model pro, very rarely missed a game and you always expected to see number 11 on the team sheet. It speaks volumes that tributes are pouring in from all over and that fans of every club he graced class him as one of their own. A true great, RIP Gary. :-(

I don't think he was to be honest. I think most new what a good player he was and just wished he played for 'their' team.

 

[AB22 Easy Tiger]

Massive, massive loss to the world of football. Not only a top bloke, but a top, top player who was vastly underrated by many; one of the best box-to-box centre mids the Premiership has seen. He was absolutely pivotal to our successful period under Sir Bobby, it's well known that Bobby absolutely adored him. He was also an outstanding leader, many of the younger players who played with him have commented how they always knew they could talk to him about anything and that they looked up to him and the example he set, as well as a model pro, very rarely missed a game and you always expected to see number 11 on the team sheet. It speaks volumes that tributes are pouring in from all over and that fans of every club he graced class him as one of their own. A true great, RIP Gary. :-(



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I'm not sure he was to be honest. I think it was just that he wasn't ever a super high profile player. I think any of us, whoever we support, would have been delighted if he'd signed for us. You lot got lucky that he felt he had to leave Everton, but even when he played for you I couldn't dislike the fella.

I don't normally chip in on these "tribute" threads, but his suicide has really got to me. Even last night I was talking with the Mrs about it and kept on coming back to the same question: why?

I guess we'll never know, but I feel so sad that a nice guy with so much going for him is gone, and his family has been ripped apart.

While I'm on, I need to say that I admire the people on this thread who have posted about their own experience of trying to commit suicide, and showing an example of getting through that experience and going on to lead a happy and fulfilled life.

I'll never understand suicide, but I suppose that's the point, nobody ever will really, unless they're in that place.

What a shame.

 

[Junior Birdman]

Well, I've been reading more about him today in the papers etc, and, if anything, I'm even more perplexed as to why this happened. Two days on and I'm still thinking about it constantly. I never thought I'd see the day the death of a footballer (particularly a former Newcastle player) with absolutely no connection to me or SAFC would have such an impact on me. There seems to be so much genuine affection for him from literally ever player, former player, fans, reporters, anyone who ever met him etc. Such an awful shame.

What an absolute waste

 

[errant]

What Barton said was a bit clumsy, but the fact that he still won't say "Sorry for any misunderstanding" and instead in intent on playing the victim tells you all you need to know about him.

did i miss the twitter-storm in a teacup? was it barton's comment re: suicide being the ultimate selfish act that upset people?

 

[jake the Snake]

A lot of good people have died in Afganistan and they don't get this sort of attention, he was not killed he hung himself. Lets not go overboard he was a footballer at the end of the day not mother Theresa...professional mourners...

 

[Life's A Pitch]

For me, one of the greatest paradoxes of Gary Speed's sad death is how totally inconsequential and yet vitally important football is. RIP

 

[errant]

I never thought I'd see the day the death of a footballer (particularly a former Newcastle player) with absolutely no connection to me or SAFC would have such an impact on me.

same here... i'm still pondering it, wondering why? and also, like yourself i don't understand why ive reacted the way i have and find myself still mulling it over when... i agree 100% with your statement above...