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becs said:
I've got deadlines at work tomorrow - typical! Can do wed, Thurs or Fri though or bairn is at her Dad's next weekend so I'm free all weekend.

Ignore the knobs on the other thread. Be proud of what you did. After all you've been through, you were bloody amazing and I'm jealous of you (in a nice way not a bitchy way!)
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Send me a msg later and we'll sort something out.

I know I should ignore it but if I can find an opportunity to beat myself up about something you know what I'm like. I've spent the last hour trying to justify myself in my head why I shouldn't take it to heart. Trying to avoid the dip is going to be harder than I thought.
 


mackem_jo2 said:
Send me a msg later and we'll sort something out.

I know I should ignore it but if I can find an opportunity to beat myself up about something you know what I'm like. I've spent the last hour trying to justify myself in my head why I shouldn't take it to heart. Trying to avoid the dip is going to be harder than I thought.
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You actually did it though! They're just idiots spouting off crap on a message board. What's the biggest achievement? Finishing a half marathon or posting a message on a board? They probably have really small dicks too :lol:
 
Kubicki said:
Any one taking Mirtazapine?

GP has put me on 30mg a day apart from my sleep improving i am feeling a lot worse then i was with Sertraline
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Used to take it as a combination with venlafaxine.
Main thing I remember is the first few nights of taking it it absolutely knocked me out.
Which was a good thing.

How long have you been taking it???
Can take up to 8/10 weeks before they improve your mood in a noticeable manner.
Quite often they never work at all & your medication will need changing again.
 
mackem_jo2 said:
I'm free for a cuppa tomorrow if you fancy it Becs?

I'm trying to keep myself going, I did the great north run yesterday & im feeling so proud of myself considering I was nearly hospitalised earlier this year. Last year though I dropped through the floor and was really poorly once the adrenaline wore off so I'm trying to take of myself at the minute. (I must admit though, reading another thread on here has made me feel shite about what I did & my rubbish time)
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Don't worry about your time, I would be a statistic if I did it. ;)
 
becs said:
You actually did it though! They're just idiots spouting off crap on a message board. What's the biggest achievement? Finishing a half marathon or posting a message on a board? They probably have really small dicks too :lol:
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That's done it, now they'll be on here depressed that their penis size doesn't live up to expectations.
 
I completely "get" the antisocial thing.
I don't socialise with anyone locally now since my kid left the local primary school. Apart from going to work I don't really talk to anyone face to face.... Just a lot of online messaging.

Signed up for music lessons starting tonight, it's an instrument I can actually play so it's an improvers lesson but I'm f***ing terrified !!! Keep running to the loo and everything....

mackem_jo2 said:
Send me a msg later and we'll sort something out.

I know I should ignore it but if I can find an opportunity to beat myself up about something you know what I'm like. I've spent the last hour trying to justify myself in my head why I shouldn't take it to heart. Trying to avoid the dip is going to be harder than I thought.
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Fuck them Jo !!!!! You did brilliantly well. Huge achievement, and don't let any nobhead take that away from you.
 
Bad_mother said:
I completely "get" the antisocial thing.
I don't socialise with anyone locally now since my kid left the local primary school. Apart from going to work I don't really talk to anyone face to face.... Just a lot of online messaging.
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I'll miss the yard chatter now as the bairn has gone into Year 5 and they're allowed to walk to and from school without parents so she wanted to go on her own. With the eldest moving out and her deciding to do that, I feel like I've been made redundant :oops:
 
becs said:
I'll miss the yard chatter now as the bairn has gone into Year 5 and they're allowed to walk to and from school without parents so she wanted to go on her own. With the eldest moving out and her deciding to do that, I feel like I've been made redundant :oops:
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I'll be honest, I don't miss the playground mum chat though....
Ever since one of them accused me to my face of trying to have an affair with her husband !!! (I wasn't)
Have to drive titch* to secondary now as we don't get a free bus any more, so we still get a chat.

*Not such a titch now at 5'7"
 
Bad_mother said:
I'll be honest, I don't miss the playground mum chat though....
Ever since one of them accused me to my face of trying to have an affair with her husband !!! (I wasn't)
Have to drive titch* to secondary now as we don't get a free bus any more, so we still get a chat.

*Not such a titch now at 5'7"
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Awww that's crap that! What a horrible woman :evil:

Had my fair share of playground politics with the older two, but all the Mam's in the youngest's year are really nice. Nobody has really fallen out or caused bother.

Titch is taller than me now! :lol:
 
mackem_jo2 said:
(I must admit though, reading another thread on here has made me feel shite about what I did & my rubbish time)
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was that the nobber that said if you do over 2 hours or something you shouldn't be allowed to take part :lol: I'm sure all those people who raised hundreds of thousands for charity dressed in inflatable dinosaur suits etc would call that post for what it was; utter bullshit.

And well done for doing it. You're an inspiration to lazy twats like me who have never done it.
 
Bad_mother said:
I completely "get" the antisocial thing.
I don't socialise with anyone locally now since my kid left the local primary school. Apart from going to work I don't really talk to anyone face to face.... Just a lot of online messaging.

Signed up for music lessons starting tonight, it's an instrument I can actually play so it's an improvers lesson but I'm f***ing terrified !!! Keep running to the loo and everything....



Fuck them Jo !!!!! You did brilliantly well. Huge achievement, and don't let any nobhead take that away from you.
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What you playing?And get out and get it played, theres that much to concentrate on you1ll have a whale of a time and be too busy to even notice your actually socializing
 
I'm okay, had a bit of a wobble this morning, started trying to mentally talk myself out of leaving the house but I managed to sort my head out and got to work on time :neutral:. I hope we get a win tonight as that will certainly lift my mood, got a hug off my little boy and that made me feel better. I isolate myself, the only people I see are family and work colleagues (I don't really have many friends tbh, most of them drifted away when I was in the grips of serious depression as I wasn't up to seeing folks).
Canny sad really, I spend most weekends alone and I wouldn't care - I'm a nice, friendly woman but I have terrible self esteem issues and worry too much.
 
look out piano said:
I'm okay, had a bit of a wobble this morning, started trying to mentally talk myself out of leaving the house but I managed to sort my head out and got to work on time :neutral:. I hope we get a win tonight as that will certainly lift my mood, got a hug off my little boy and that made me feel better. I isolate myself, the only people I see are family and work colleagues (I don't really have many friends tbh, most of them drifted away when I was in the grips of serious depression as I wasn't up to seeing folks).
Canny sad really, I spend most weekends alone and I wouldn't care - I'm a nice, friendly woman but I have terrible self esteem issues and worry too much.
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empty your box man woman man ;)
 
look out piano said:
I'm okay, had a bit of a wobble this morning, started trying to mentally talk myself out of leaving the house but I managed to sort my head out and got to work on time :neutral:. I hope we get a win tonight as that will certainly lift my mood, got a hug off my little boy and that made me feel better. I isolate myself, the only people I see are family and work colleagues (I don't really have many friends tbh, most of them drifted away when I was in the grips of serious depression as I wasn't up to seeing folks).
Canny sad really, I spend most weekends alone and I wouldn't care - I'm a nice, friendly woman but I have terrible self esteem issues and worry too much.
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You sound just like me. Stay strong. Life is hard but allow people like you say to see you as the friendly woman you are. :)
 
Struggling today. Maybe its a come down from the euphoria of the run yesterday but I just can't get going today. Hate it when I feel like this
 
look out piano said:
The wobble is one of the main problems fella :confused:, but thanks all the same.


Thank you, you too ! :).
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I'm too big too pet but am cutting down and have changed my lifestyle a little (smaller portions, no junk and a walk every day). Long process so am just taking things a pound at a time - already seen some results but not expecting instant miracles.
 
Themig said:
Struggling today. Maybe its a come down from the euphoria of the run yesterday but I just can't get going today. Hate it when I feel like this
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The match is on tonight - hope you'll be watching ! (it'll take your mind off things) :p.

Abu Dhabi Red and White said:
I'm too big too pet but am cutting down and have changed my lifestyle a little (smaller portions, no junk and a walk every day). Long process so am just taking things a pound at a time - already seen some results but not expecting instant miracles.
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Me neither, but I just get mentally daunted when I think about the 140lbs+ I need to lose.
 
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