for remotes just look at the cheapie chinese import ones on ebay, only £2 or £3 and they are ok, well for me they have been anyway.
as for a tripod, i just have a cheap hama one at the moment which i thought was great for the price (£15) until i was up penshaw monument and it blew over and smashed the lens on my camera, luckily the camera was ok...anyway, had my eye on Redsnapper tripods for a while as they are apparently as good as the manfrotto ones that cost twice the price..have a look at there website..
http://www.redsnapperuk.com/redsnapp...y-tripods.html