Has anyone just left everything and buggered off?

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Aye because It's terrible having a nice normal and stable life.

Much better to fritter it away on nowt because you feel self pity due to a bad moment in your life and post the details on here.

The OP will I imagine be much stronger than that. I'm sure he will make the right choice and hopefully it won't be to piss it all away in Cambodia. His ex will piss herself if he does that. Best bet is to come back bigger and stronger not show everyone that you are weak.


What's right about pissing your life up a wall? Ffs.

Who says he'll piss it up a wall? I can understand your points as well mind but it could be the making of the bloke - he may settle elsewhere and start a new more fulfilling life - who knows
 


Don't listen to the fuckers on here. They'd be content too see you hoy your future away so you could tell them a few tales on here.

Stay on the straight and narrow marra.


Aye a shocking life too choose.
Why is he throwing his future away? Why is it weak? Embracing an exciting opportunity is not weak. The saying is travel is the only thing you spend money on that makes you richer. And it's correct.
 
Why is he throwing his future away? Why is it weak? Embracing an exciting opportunity is not weak. The saying is travel is the only thing you spend money on that makes you richer. And it's correct.
At the minute the lad has the upper hand here. Their lass has done the dirty on him and she looks bad.

If he gives everything up, fucks off to Cambodia or Thailand, gans on the piss, shags a few lady boys ;) then word will get back and she will tell everyone that she knew he was this type of character and the tables have all of a sudden turned. Forever and a day when someone has a go at her the other side will simply say that he wasnt to be trusted and everyone knew that he was a bit of a weak character.

She needed someone "stable" and as could be seen by his now hedonistic life he wasnt stable. She knew that he never really wanted the 2.4 kids, mortgage and job.

Thats how it will be portrayed. Right or wrong.

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Her and her family will be sitting waiting for him to make a wrong move.
 
At the minute the lad has the upper hand here. Their lass has done the dirty on him and she looks bad.

If he gives everything up, fucks off to Cambodia or Thailand, gans on the piss, shags a few lady boys ;) then word will get back and she will tell everyone that she knew he was this type of character and the tables have all of a sudden turned. Forever and a day when someone has a go at her the other side will simply say that he wasnt to be trusted and everyone knew that he was a bit of a weak character.

She needed someone "stable" and as could be seen by his now hedonistic life he wasnt stable. She knew that he never really wanted the 2.4 kids, mortgage and job.

Thats how it will be portrayed. Right or wrong.

OP 0 v 1 Ex Lass

Her and her family will be sitting waiting for him to make a wrong move.

Utter f***ing shite mate.
 
At the minute the lad has the upper hand here. Their lass has done the dirty on him and she looks bad.

If he gives everything up, fucks off to Cambodia or Thailand, gans on the piss, shags a few lady boys ;) then word will get back and she will tell everyone that she knew he was this type of character and the tables have all of a sudden turned. Forever and a day when someone has a go at her the other side will simply say that he wasnt to be trusted and everyone knew that he was a bit of a weak character.

She needed someone "stable" and as could be seen by his now hedonistic life he wasnt stable. She knew that he never really wanted the 2.4 kids, mortgage and job.

Thats how it will be portrayed. Right or wrong.

OP 0 v 1 Ex Lass

Her and her family will be sitting waiting for him to make a wrong move.
:lol: Who gives a fuck what she thinks, really? She was bucking about behind his back, she's hardly trustworthy herself, is she? Anyone who picks her side over his is hardly worth bothering about if you ask me.

If anything she'll be green with envy that he is doing something that bit adventurous while she is stuck with Barry from accounting who she will no doubt grow tired of in the future if Monty's experiences are anything to go by.
 
At the minute the lad has the upper hand here. Their lass has done the dirty on him and she looks bad.

If he gives everything up, fucks off to Cambodia or Thailand, gans on the piss, shags a few lady boys ;) then word will get back and she will tell everyone that she knew he was this type of character and the tables have all of a sudden turned. Forever and a day when someone has a go at her the other side will simply say that he wasnt to be trusted and everyone knew that he was a bit of a weak character.

She needed someone "stable" and as could be seen by his now hedonistic life he wasnt stable. She knew that he never really wanted the 2.4 kids, mortgage and job.

Thats how it will be portrayed. Right or wrong.

OP 0 v 1 Ex Lass

Her and her family will be sitting waiting for him to make a wrong move.
It's not about her and what she thinks, it isn't a competition.
He has the unexpected opportunity for a life changing experience.
On his death bed does he want to be thinking "at least my life was stable"?
Everything will still be here when he comes back. Christ, I was away for a year and everyone was stood in the same spot in the pub when I got back as they were when I left.
Fun isn't a crime.
 
At the minute the lad has the upper hand here. Their lass has done the dirty on him and she looks bad.

If he gives everything up, fucks off to Cambodia or Thailand, gans on the piss, shags a few lady boys ;) then word will get back and she will tell everyone that she knew he was this type of character and the tables have all of a sudden turned. Forever and a day when someone has a go at her the other side will simply say that he wasnt to be trusted and everyone knew that he was a bit of a weak character.

She needed someone "stable" and as could be seen by his now hedonistic life he wasnt stable. She knew that he never really wanted the 2.4 kids, mortgage and job.

Thats how it will be portrayed. Right or wrong.

OP 0 v 1 Ex Lass

Her and her family will be sitting waiting for him to make a wrong move.
What a steaming pile of shite. Why does someone need to act like that in Asia. Cambodia has the finest temples in the world and trip advisors number one place in the world this year (Angkor Wat), the killing fields, s21, the countryside. Bangkok has amazing palaces and temples and budhas. Northern Thailand has amazing mountains, southern Thailand amazing beaches. Trips on the Mekong take you to Laos. Laos has Luang Prabang with the monks and temples and waterfall. Vietnam is absolutely buzzing as a country. Yet you focus on ladyboys. Is your mind that closed?
 
What a steaming pile of shite. Why does someone need to act like that in Asia. Cambodia has the finest temples in the world and trip advisors number one place in the world this year (Angkor Wat), the killing fields, s21, the countryside. Bangkok has amazing palaces and temples and budhas. Northern Thailand has amazing mountains, southern Thailand amazing beaches. Trips on the Mekong take you to Laos. Laos has Luang Prabang with the monks and temples and waterfall. Vietnam is absolutely buzzing as a country. Yet you focus on ladyboys. Is your mind that closed?
He's probably only been as far as Benidorm, man, the poor lamb.
 
What a steaming pile of shite. Why does someone need to act like that in Asia. Cambodia has the finest temples in the world and trip advisors number one place in the world this year (Angkor Wat), the killing fields, s21, the countryside. Bangkok has amazing palaces and temples and budhas. Northern Thailand has amazing mountains, southern Thailand amazing beaches. Trips on the Mekong take you to Laos. Laos has Luang Prabang with the monks and temples and waterfall. Vietnam is absolutely buzzing as a country. Yet you focus on ladyboys. Is your mind that closed?

FFS :lol:

Message to the OP - if you want to throw your life away marra take the advice of the majority on this thread who probably have drug problems, alcohol problems, marriage difficulties and mental health problems due to flitting off and living this sort of itinerant lifestyle. They seem to think that making a hash of your life is something funny.

If you want to get over this properly, go away for a couple of weeks and get stuck into a normal hard working life when you come back; a one that gives you stability and the chance to get back on track really quickly.

The one thing you dont want to do ATM is anything rash and make a mistake, like the majority on here have probably done. You'll just end up regretting it.

We live in the real world not some fantasy land.

He's probably only been as far as Benidorm, man, the poor lamb.
What absolute shite man. FFS. Who the fuck are you; Bear Grylls.
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FFS :lol:

Message to the OP - if you want to throw your life away marra take the advice of the majority on this thread who probably have drug problems, alcohol problems, marriage difficulties and mental health problems due to flitting off and living this sort of itinerant lifestyle. They seem to think that making a hash of your life is something funny.

If you want to get over this properly, go away for a couple of weeks and get stuck into a normal hard working life when you come back; a one that gives you stability and the chance to get back on track really quickly.

The one thing you dont want to do ATM is anything rash and make a mistake, like the majority on here have probably done. You'll just end up regretting it.

We live in the real world not some fantasy land.

What absolute shite man. FFS. Who the fuck are you; Bear Grylls.
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And who the fuck are you, eh? :lol: Presumptuous bellend.
 
FFS :lol:

Message to the OP - if you want to throw your life away marra take the advice of the majority on this thread who probably have drug problems, alcohol problems, marriage difficulties and mental health problems due to flitting off and living this sort of itinerant lifestyle. They seem to think that making a hash of your life is something funny.

If you want to get over this properly, go away for a couple of weeks and get stuck into a normal hard working life when you come back; a one that gives you stability and the chance to get back on track really quickly.

The one thing you dont want to do ATM is anything rash and make a mistake, like the majority on here have probably done. You'll just end up regretting it.

We live in the real world not some fantasy land.

Seething, seething that another young man could have the opportunities you were denied by your sensible and risk averse character. How's your ISA's doing?
 
Everyone Is different and find different things fulfilling

Op should heed my advice

1 secure assets
2 delete her number
3 take a 3/4 week break and take some time to think things over.

For three I'd advise Asia or south America if funds afford
 
Everyone Is different and find different things fulfilling

Op should heed my advice

1 secure assets
2 delete her number
3 take a 3/4 week break and take some time to think things over.

For three I'd advise Asia or south America if funds afford
Apart from saying 3 or 4 months not weeks I agree.
 
f***ing dinosaur with an outlook on life firmly rooted in the 50s. I'd rather be dead. :lol:
No doubt you'll get your wish, earlier than you thought, with the life you and others lead.

My advice remains the same to the lad, steer the straight and narrow course. Dont go off the rails, dont jack your job in and most certainly dont fuckoff on some sort of 6 monthly world jaunt, because eventually you have to come back...to what? Nothing.

Have a couple of weeks off in some far off place, recharge the batteries, get your head back together and then come back your job and sort your pension out, your ISA's, get yourself a house, a new lass and a mortgage ie like normal people do.

Best of luck to the OP.
 
FFS :lol:

Message to the OP - if you want to throw your life away marra take the advice of the majority on this thread who probably have drug problems, alcohol problems, marriage difficulties and mental health problems due to flitting off and living this sort of itinerant lifestyle. They seem to think that making a hash of your life is something funny.

If you want to get over this properly, go away for a couple of weeks and get stuck into a normal hard working life when you come back; a one that gives you stability and the chance to get back on track really quickly.

The one thing you dont want to do ATM is anything rash and make a mistake, like the majority on here have probably done. You'll just end up regretting it.

We live in the real world not some fantasy land.


What absolute shite man. FFS. Who the fuck are you; Bear Grylls.
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:lol:


With respect, this is unfettered bullshit and immediately suggests you are scared to leave your borders. Why not get stuck into a 'hard working life' abroad? Why not take on a job you can do on the road, online, to keep you going?

In the past 8/9 years I have lived in New Jersey, Ukraine, Czech Republic, Malaysia, and Hong Kong, with many shorter stops in between. I can most assuredly say I have not 'made a hash of my life', and I have experienced the world and people in it in a way what would be impossible if I just remained within my county, worked a 9-5, and hit a med island for 2 weeks every summer. Fantasy land for me, is expecting to find satisfaction in that way of life.
 
Everyone Is different and find different things fulfilling

Op should heed my advice

1 secure assets
2 delete her number
3 take a 3/4 week break and take some time to think things over.

For three I'd advise Asia or south America if funds afford
The weeks bit is the important bit, not months. Two or three weeks away then its back to work and the start of a new and fresh life.
 
FFS :lol:

Message to the OP - if you want to throw your life away marra take the advice of the majority on this thread who probably have drug problems, alcohol problems, marriage difficulties and mental health problems due to flitting off and living this sort of itinerant lifestyle. They seem to think that making a hash of your life is something funny.

If you want to get over this properly, go away for a couple of weeks and get stuck into a normal hard working life when you come back; a one that gives you stability and the chance to get back on track really quickly.

The one thing you dont want to do ATM is anything rash and make a mistake, like the majority on here have probably done. You'll just end up regretting it.

We live in the real world not some fantasy land.


What absolute shite man. FFS. Who the fuck are you; Bear Grylls.
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:lol:
I've done it and don't regret it for a second. As it seems no one else on the thread who has actually done it regrets it. My only regret is I've had to come home.
 
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